What's better ...?

Question

To marry someone who loves you, or someone you love?

Answer 1

someone you love because someone who loves you and you don't give him back this feeling will be embarrassing believe me

Answer 2

Some one who loves you. If a person loves you, he will treat u with respect. He will treat u like a princess. If this is the case then you will fall in love with him because it's the way a person treats you that makes u fall in love with them =) You may not acknowledge this at first but time will show u !

If u fell in love with some one who dosnot love u back or who treats u like c**p, you are guna hate his guts. You are guna see him ugly & spend ur nights crying.

Between these two choices, it's up to our mind to make a wise decision because the heart doesn't always know the answer. So what is it guna be ? Good Luck =)

Answer 3

Hmm... it won't work till it is on a reciprocal bases.

All marriages are in way a compromise as both parties have to sacrifice their freedom, time and otherwise.  

But you won't feel it as the satisfaction from love is much larger than your loss. But, when there is no love then its a burden and the compromises you or he will make will pinch/ hurt.

When in love big issue between you becomes smaller otherwise the small issues become too large to handle.

Answer 4

not to get married at all would be my option...lol

Answer 5

I agree with Hally.

Any love that isn't returned is incomplete and uncomfortable.

hey old man!! what's so hard to understand?

Answer 6

both are equally important for a successful relationship

Answer 7

ithas to be mutual or i wont do it

i would never marry someone who loves me but i dont love him

id feel guilty cuz he deserves better and deserves love

and i wouldnt marry someone who doesnt love me cuz dammnn if he dont love me then my life would be miserable of me just feelin like c**p if i feel he doesnt love me as much as i love him

mutual love is much better and lasts longer

Answer 8

None of them.

Love is a feeling that has to be shared by both.

It shouldnt be nice to spend the rest of the life loving a person that doesnt love me,,,,,,,,,as shouldnt be nice to  be with a person that loves me,,,but that i dont love.

So... none of that options is valid for me.

EDIT.....

Poor Aussie...he's becoming senile, and cant understand some things clear as water.

Webby........can u please explain the old guy what I meant???

Thank you .

Answer 9

I believe that it needs to be mutual love in order to endure...

edit...Can anyone please interpret Hally's answer for me .....I have  read , reread  , tipped it upside down & still don't know what she's getting at ! lol

She is getting old , like me !