So if a guy that I have been on 5 dates with texts me to say yes we can talk on the phone (b/c I asked him if we could talk) and then he text messages me again later and says "Plans changed- I am going downtown to listen to live music with friends, you can call 2morrow while I am at work anytime" I should tell you the date we went on this weekend was not that fabulous, we couldn't think of anything to talk about. I really like this guy. We couldn't think of much to talk about b/c it been weeks since we last saw each other b/c of his vacation and we have been communicating a lot via e-mail and text so it was hard to transition back to face to face interaction. I called him last night like he said I could and I got his voice mail. He texted me today and he was hanging out with a couple girls and guys that were in town for the week. He told me on our date that he had dinner for a small group planned and only one person showed- a girl that happens to not like me much- they joke with each other a lot and he used to like her before I came around. He called me tonight but talked about killing the bugs that got into his house almost the whole time. It used to be that we would talk for 1.5 hrs or more, but after 30 minutes he said he had to go. What do you think? What's going on? How should I interact with him at this point (we are apart of the same very large social circle) If he is losing interest, can someone stop liking you and genuinely like you again? What do you have to do to see that happen?
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