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What's happning to my friend?

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I'm really worried with a friend of mine. We were really close until last year. Since our 11 years old, we were best friends, her mom has never gave her much attention, I remembered she telling me she was at home all alone with 11 years old, and her mom always arrived late. She has always had alot of friends and she expressed her love for them, always saying to them she loved them yadayadayada. Her other best friend died when we were about 13, and she got really bad. He was her guy best friend ( that’s what she referred to him), but next year she had another guy best friend already. How is that possible? How? He died and she replaced him for another person? Alright, so, last year we had a huge argument, and we didn't speak for weeks, many weeks. She found a new friend and she started to call her best friend. Saying: "Why are you like this? Just because I have a best friend that is not you?" I got my eyes open in shock; can't she see how childish that remark was? But alright. We kept talking a little, and this summer, her new best friend just got tired of her, and she started to wanting my friendship back Always saying she missed the old days yadayadayada, but what's funny is that during that period, she told me she went about 3 times to the hospital with some really weird diseases (like throwing out blood and stuff, that suposlly only got her at the hospital one night…). Me and my other friend talked about it and this friend of mine has a disease and she spends a lot time on the hospital to tell she was lying about some other things. But, ok, keeping on, my another friend, this one was the main reason why we argued one year ago, and now she calls her her best friend and they are all obsessed with each other, you see, in a week they were lying to each other and calling out each other (secretly, they talked to me and occasionally let it split out), and after some days: chan.chaan.

for the new best friend I know why she's like this, why she does what my friend wants, because she's naive and she does believe in what my friend says, and did believed when she told her she would kill herself if she didn't forgive her, for a lie she had said, 3 weeks before this best friends-boom. (that lie… well she went out with me and another friend of ours and she told the recent “best friend” that she couldn’t go out with her for some reason, she also told me: Ah hanging out with you is more important than hanging out with her!”

Maybe she's sad? I know she had been seeing a cousler before, when her friend died but I think she doesn't anymore =S Any clues for what’s happening to her? I know you people don’t know her but I do, and also our friends and we are worried with the both of them, they are starting to get far from everyone else, they developed an obsession.

Thank you for reading.

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  1. Be there for your friend. You don't have to solve her problem, but you can tell her that you're there for her for anything.

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