What's my ex's deal? please read,thank you in advance! ?

Question

my bf broke up with me after going out for a year. the reason, i still have no clue. considering the same day just a little earlier before he broke up with me he told me he loved me... a week after we broke up i went back to where i live in russia. hes from moscow and i live in st.peters-burg. since i left hes been commenting my pictures with smileys "=)", he commented a song i had up called "without you victor" its just ironic how that's his name too...but he said "yeah...happy song=(". occasionally he'd IM me asking me how i am or whats the deal with the depressing quotes id have up, asking me if i really want him to leave me alone forever. oh, and he'd tell my friends that hes stupid for breaking up with me... the catch is that he then asked another girl out... and a week after that (btw she rejected him) he told my friend to say hi to me while i was on the phone with her...so i don't get it? does he regret it or not?

Answer 1

I think he doesn't know what he wants.  He wants to have you on the side in case it doesn't work out with other girls.

Answer 2

I think hes stuck in between...guys are immature sometimes and when they still have feelings for you they tend to show in weird ways like asking another girl to make you jealous.(not saying that it did) Hes random hi's and picture comments are probably his way to see if you still have feelings for him..but that's my opinion.

Answer 3

he's playing immature games. I would block the IM's.

Answer 4

I'm not sure if he regrets it, or if he's just having a hard time letting go of you.  I definately think he's playing games though...one minute he's asking someone out, and the next contacting you.  He sounds immature...but at the end of it he really isn't the important factor.  You are.  You're worth so much more than someone that would treat you so unfairly.  You want a man that only wants you....and would never think of breaking up with you or asking someone else out.  Let Victor play his games and you move on with your life.  Don't allow him to upset you....your concern is with finding the "real" one for you....dont waste any more time....go find him.