What's my problem? I am recently divorced. It's been hard. I've been in 2 relationships in the last 4 months.?

Question

I've been married for 7 years and it's finally over. I met a guy that kind of helped me through the divorce and I started dating him. that didn't work out. I started dating someone else. He's good to me. We are able to talk about everything. He is looking to settle down and wants a wife and to grow old with someone. He's great. But I feel like I'm wrong because for 7 years I've only been with one man and now my "resume" is growing. I wonder if I'm trying to compensate for my broken marriage. Any advice. My ex husband is a loser by the way.

Answer 1

yes ok that is your choice

Answer 2

there's nothing wrong in marrying the second person if u realy like him because as u said u were with oone guy for 7 yrs..

Answer 3

u r feeling insecure and to show a bold face to this world ur acceptingwhatever is coming ur way,  take  some time, develope ur self and more skills, their is still time and then select care fully, dont throw ur self to the situation rather take control of it

Answer 4

Self satisfection is the best satisfaction.so u can doit any how but always follows that your deceision should not be a hurmfull others.

Answer 5

no there's nothing wrong with being with different guys, you have to know who's right for you, just take it slow with the people you meet, try not to jump into anything serious right away, 7 yrs is a loong time and you need to figure out who you are not the married you but the you who can do whatever you want you, don't jump into anything cause :hes good to you" and you don't want to be lonely, find some one you cant live without, there out there just keep looking! since you've been divorced you know how hard it is to be with the wrong person! don't let it happen again! take your time girl! remember you'll be married for a looong time been single is a great time to figure out what YOU want!

Answer 6

sorry honey but only you know if your ready to settle down again. talk to the guy about how you feel and see if he is willing to give you a little more time. get engaged and put off marrage for later or somthin. if he gets mad or aggitated for you suggesting this then he dosn't care about your feelings at all and you'd be better off without him.

but if he agrees or tells you it's ok then you got a good one!!!!

i wish you the best of luck honey. if you ever need anybody to alk to then just give me an email. im always free.  

Answer 7

Well, ask yourself if you want to settle down again or if you want to go and date other people?

Answer 8

the word looser in what sense? if u believe ur's self ? u have no need for help or shelter ( where u pass ur problems to any one for 6-8 months)? what i think . pass ur life as u wish. otherwise give that person a chance whether he read ur problems or not. then go away with the consult of ur elder's? as ur child's r young.?