What's the best way to deal with others mistakes?

Question

when these mistakes affect you too

Answer 1

SILENCE

Answer 2

if u want others to forgive ur mistakes, then u have to forgive theirs..

Answer 3

be a nice person and try to make the person feel not very guilty and try to solve that mistake..also i am not sure what type of mistakes u mean.

Answer 4

Give yourself the space to Forgive and Forget

It is not for the other person , it is for your peace mind

Answer 5

laugh it off. all mistakes become are good memories.

remember when u did this? yeah . man u was stupid. yeah i know.

Answer 6

learn how to forgive,,,,,,then kindly explain this mistakes for others to understand and do not do again

Answer 7

Chances are at some point you have done the same things or worse. Just wait till you do and get caught, then you will feel like an idiot and you can look past others.

Answer 8

i dont react strongly so as not to lose them completely .

when im cool, i hint at their mistake .

if they love me , they apologise or explain their behavior .

i forgive them if im convinced with their execuses .

i try to forget what they did to carry on with my life .

life has taught me that Many things do not deserve making me angry or upset with others .

it is best to put their mistakes behind my back and carry on with life .

irritations are like summer flies !

i hush them/kill them/keep them away , but i dont keep thinking about them!

Answer 9

Theres not much i can do about this mistake that affects me except to say Al7amdulilah and talk it out with the person and write a list on how i can become a better person myself because if i want to change something i have to change myself first

Answer 10

you don't have to repress your feelings. Express how you really feel toward them, in verbal manners or in non-verbal. they have to know that what they have done affected you. otherwise they will just repeat it again and again.

if they feel guilty -or even fake it to you- accept their mistake and give them another chance. or a lot of chances. Because although they hurt they still care about you. but don't let them develop into the type of toxic friends, who are actually just working in destructive manners against your self-esteem

if you see them not feeling guilty, even when they know that this hurts you, then just locate them in a different context away from your personal life. yes forgiveness is a great thing. and you will forgive them eventually. but forgiveness doesn't mean that you are satisfied with what they did. it means you forgive your self and not to put more burden from the past in away to affect your future.

if they also don't feel regrets, but cant understand why this hurt you, then they are just different from you socially or culturally, just accept them and try to deal with them in a definite context of time and place