What's the best way to erase someone in your mind?

Question

I was in a horrible situation where a guy used me...and I can't seem to get passed it =[ I feel like dying cause no one has ever made me feel so worthless before =[

Answer 1

find a social group or few friends you can hang out with.

and have a good time with them.

or the alternative, you will forget about it in time or when someone comes by and treat you well :)

no problemo

Answer 2

You cant delete memories and cetain situations, all these things happen to you in life for you to learn from them and grow.

Time is a healer.....as time goes on the amount of time you spend thinking about this person will lesson and lesson.

You can busy yourself aswell this may help, get a job, do some hobbies, have fun, please dont put your life on hold because of what individual did to you.

I had incredibely bad experiences with my ex in the new year,had to get the police involved and move etc, my doctor said i was having a breakdown but now 7 months on....life could not be better and im glad i went through those experiences and found my inner strengh etc.

There are over 6 billion people on this planet, dont let 1 individual set you back!!

Answer 3

if u accept heartfully and love the hate towards the person u dislike,the fear behind the hate,the fear behind feeling of forgoing something

otherwise the hate towards that person increases and disturb u

Answer 4

replace or cover it by something. the reason we forget things is that a new information is introduced to the brain and covered the existing information. find something to do. be busy and keep your mind preoccupied. don't forget to enjoy while you are doing those things. going out with friends and having a good time is the best because of the emotion of happiness will help the new information to block the old information. even watching funny movies will help you boost your self perception. think about the people that have the funniest accent like arabic accent sounds like a good old camel with a bad throat ooOOWOOOWwing loudly. the emotion of joy will also help you emotionally to forget the thing that happened in the past.

and to your self. have a positive mentality. what happened in the past is just a piece of memory and it's over and better not to be remembered again. and you'll be thinking "that is right."

Answer 5

People are not like any technology software that can be deleted whenever you feel it had become an infective agent in your memory...  

Perhaps using your imaginative seedbed will help...for instance, what would happen if gravity stopped for one second everyday? What would things be like? How would life have developed under such conditions?

Human beings occupy a special niche in the order of things...You have now the ability to symbolize your experience, and your thinking is not limited to the real and the present... Confused? Well, un-confuse yourself.  In your current predicament of "like dying", you have simplified your anticipation of your future...

Allowing your mind and heart be in a horrible situation with a horrible guy validated that yourself simulated such the possibility.  The probability of ploughing your good self back where you truly belong would help a great deal of cultivating your seedbed.  

True, there are friends, family, hobbies, but at the end of the day you would still feel wretched... BUT, if you will allow your head to work above your heart and not the other way around, perhaps you will realize that it was a blessing in disguise that you have been relieved of this creature who will most likely escalate destruction later on in your life.

So, stop...smell the roses... life does not end where it begins.

Cheerrrriiooo!

Answer 6

Aww don't fret hun everything will be fine. =)

Honestly, this is just one of these situations that you have to learn from. You can't beat yourself up because things didn't end up going the way you hoped for because that isn't your fault. Only you can truely look deep within yourself, and know your value. Don't ever let anyone take that away from you. Some guys are dogs, and I hope you look back on everything he did and said to you to manipulate you to do the things you did with him and make sure you look out for his type next time. But in the mean time, do things for yourself, have some self reflection time, start loving youself, and except the fact that things are the way they are, because this is a stepping stone to self discovery and self appreciation. He's the worthless one, not you.

Answer 7

you kno, sometimes you gotta just kinda think that you a single person in a world with millions of others...where theres someone somewhere that experienced the same thing as you. its a part of life... just live it...dont let it get you down its the only one you got, cuz tommrows another day. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFXzQBJkm...