What's the best way to kill a man's fantasy about an attractive woman?

Question

I find that a lot of men think it's ok to lust openly after me and I find it very rude!

What's the best way to kill a man's fantasy about an attractive woman

Answer 1

Don't shave your armpits for a month and then start wearing tank tops. Oh, and skip the deoderant. That should do it.

Chew tobacco and spit it everywhere you go, including inside.

Wipe your nose on your sleeve.

Dress like all those candid shots of Britney Spears. *shudder*

In all seriousness, how about don't dress/act in a way that is provocative. You can look chic and fashionable and lovely without drawing all the drooling lusty looks.

Chanteuse - oh my GOODNESS woman, good thing I wasn't drinking something or my monitor and keyboard would be wearing it right now!! That's the best advice yet.

Answer 2

Hahaha

Just say "Gawd... I am like, so tired of people like, staring at me all the time! I find it like, sooo rude!" whenever they approach you.

Or better yet. Just talk about yourself. A lot. I don't think you'll have a problem doing this....*cough cough*

Answer 3

Huh?

It's not their lust or fantasies you have anything to say about, only their behavior as it effects you.

Snub any unwanted advances. You have no obligation to dal with someone just because they want to deal with you.

That's it.

If they lust or want to fantasize, as long as it doesn't effect you in any way, that's their look-out.

If you'd given ANY specificity, it would be possible to answer more helpfully.

Answer 4

Talk about marriage.

Answer 5

sweetie... the same thing happens to me all the time....  i wish i new some way to keep those scuzballs away...  problem is theres so many perverts out there that no matter wat u do to scare them off...  like passing gas...  or barfing...  or watever u try...  therell be some pervs that actualy get turned on by it!!!  even if u try saying ur realy a guy or preop...  then ull get bi guys hiting on u...  i dont no wat to do...

Answer 6

Ask him if he wants to taste your period. OR

You could just tell him to back off and that you think he's being rude.

Answer 7

me, too. I find that a lot of pervs openly lust after my bouncing bosom lol best way is to make your eyes c**k-eyed and grow a uni-brow.

Answer 8

I think you are full of yourself and look for men to lust after you.  You will never believe they are not.  

Answer 9

Tell them you appreciate the attention because it's so hard finding a man to date...now that your "condition" is flaring up.

Answer 10

Tell him you have a p***s.

Answer 11

It is rude, but there isn't much you can do to stop them. Changing other people's behavior is difficult, especially if you don't even know them.

The only thing you can do is change yourself. If you don't want to attract so much attention, consider the clothes you're wearing or the vibe you're giving out. If you're not willing to change anything, though, you'd better just get used to rude men.

Answer 12

I like the belching idea

Answer 13

Why kill anyone's fantasy?  Life is more fun just living your own fantasies and appreciating the fact that everyone has their own.  If you feel objectified by these guys, you're hanging around the wrong kind of men, maybe even trolling such gonadal waters for nibbles that you can then snub in some kind of cat-and-mouse game.  To stay honest, always consider your own behaviors and motives in social situations that make you feel uncomfortable. Personally, I've always found that any woman who whines about guys "lusting" after her is enjoying it to high heaven and doesn't have the self-esteem to admit it, the maturity to cope with it, or the honor to own up to her part in it.

Answer 14

Snort really hard and then swallow it loud.

Answer 15

Just be cool, aloof and ignore them.

Answer 16

Eat lots of beans.

Answer 17

Snuggle up to him, stroke his back, and whisper seductively into his ear,

"I'm really a pre-op transsexual.  Give me your hand."  He'll stop.

Answer 18

Easy do you have kids... talk about the pregnancy and birth.  If you were heals talk about how they make your feet hurt.  Anything that takes you from a fantasy to a real women should work.  If you have a significant other talk about how you nag him even if you don't.

Avoid the advice of the girl who talked about tasting your period... some guys have or want to get their "Red Wings".

Answer 19

pick your nose and f**t

Answer 20

Act cold and aloof towards them. One common misconception men have about attractive women is that they're warm and friendly. If you behave in a way that's different from what they expect, then that puts them off.

Answer 21

Belch loudly and scratch your rear in public.