What's the big deal about having a torn hymen?

Question

What's the big deal about having a torn hymen?

Answer 1

There is no big deal about it, except to the backward cultures and uninformed individuals who believe it's proof of virginity. A woman who could be disgraced (or worse) for not bleeding on her wedding night is naturally going to be anxious about it.

What harder to understand is why people in the West have so much anxiety about it. If you watch this section for any length of time, the sheer number of hymen questions will shock you.

Most of the people fretting about hymens wouldn't be able to find one on the human body even if you gave them a map, anyway.  They all seem to think it's located somewhere other than where it actually is, and that they'll bleed like a scene from Nightmare on Elm Street when they lose their virginity.

For an insignificant membrane, it sure carries a lot of baggage.

Answer 2

I don't know. Never thought about it ..until I had a 7lb baby ripped from mine,,,ouch

Answer 3

Nothing. As long as you don't have meatloaf v****a with those alien-like tentical labias hangin down we don't care.

Answer 4

nothing

Answer 5

Some people still believe that an unbroken hymen is a sign of virginity. Of course now we know that a lot of girls break their hymen playing sports when they are younger. So it's no big deal whether you have it or not.  

Answer 6

I dunno...who's making a big deal about it? It's not really that 'big of a deal,' lol!

I think it may have been an issue in the old days because they relied on it for proof of virginity, but in today's world and knowledge, this is just redundant. I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of girls get their hymens torn from doing sports and putting in tampons.

I hope my answer satisfies you. Have a wonderful day!! :)

Answer 7

people think it makes them more mature? or it's a confidence boost to think that someone would have s*x with them?

Answer 8

Nothing.   It's no bigger a deal than having muscular legs because you've been exercising or a funny smell on your breath because you've been eating garlic.

It's perfectly normal and most women have torn their hymens at least a little bit *long* before they ever have s*x for the first time.