What's the danger in loving somebody too much?

Question

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when is love too much?

Answer 1

You fall off a cliff.  

You say that love is too much when you feel it exploding inside you.  Love is too much when all you think about is the person you love and nothing else.  It is too much when everything you do is for him and nothing for you.  It is too much when you go overboard...hence the fall off a cliff.  yikes!

Answer 2

the danger happens when you no longer remember yourself..you no longer love yourself, in the end losing yourself..

its such a pity that when we give our 100 percent, it would be too late to realize that we have also hurt not only ourselves but our loved ones too.. our family would be in pain more seeing that we have totally lost control of ourselves.

Answer 3

when that love is destructive, not constructive.

Answer 4

being obessed is not cool

Answer 5

the danger is that this intense love may not be returned, there is never too much love if it is mutual,if not someones in for a big heart ache

Answer 6

I guess the danger would be STDs :P

Love is too much when one person obsesses over the other.

Answer 7

you expect too much in return... love is too much when you're too obsessed with that guy/gal...

Answer 8

in europe they will respond in the same manner i am talking of men for general, in the philippines men takes women for granted, for them it is due to them they merit it on their point of view.

Answer 9

knowing that it's your heart they can't touch.. ]x

Answer 10

I didnt realize that I have loved too much...only until I lost my love.

I agree with Sexy_Momma...I cut my ties to the outside world, I dont have myself, its like I have reserved 'me' to only one person.

The danger...its mostly the pain and all the things that are caused by pain.

At the end, is it worth it? Yes, its one process of learning. And because of that, I found out what I can do for love. Next time, at least I know my bearings. There is a boundary now called self-worth and self-importance.  

Answer 11

When you start losing your sense of self. You cut ties from friends and family. You're whole world revolves around that persone alone.You compromise your moral and spiritual values just to please your partner.

Partners leave, cheat and die. Ask yourself: What am I if he/she is gone from my life all of a sudden? Then you will know if you have loved too much to the point of losing yourself in the relationship.

Answer 12

The danger is that you will be too dependent on them that you may not be able to survive or will be really traumatized if they leave you. You might also get obsessed with them that you unconsciously suffocate them and slowly push them away.

Loving too much is good if it's mutual. You have to love yourself first and never give it all unless you are married to them or they are your kids..

Answer 13

Ever heard of the song "Too Much Love Will Kill You" by Queen? It pretty much sums up the dangers.

LYRICS:

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/q/queen/too+m...

How do you know when it's too much?

When you put up with c**p that goes over board and you're starting to believe the lies you tell to yourself just to make things bearable.

When you start to feel self-pity, insecurities and become obsessive that you stalk them and investigate their every move to pacify your feelings.

When it feels the relationship is becoming one-sided instead of being a two-way street.

Answer 14

Loving yourself too little.  Love is too much when you love that person more than you love yourself.

Although,if you are equally loved then there should be no danger. But remember, once you love a person as though they were a god, then you end up serving them and we should only serve one god.