What's the point of....?

Question

eye contact during s*x... I always look away for some reason, and my husband will sometimes tell me to look into his eyes......what's the point of it

Answer 1

It's incredibly intimate. It's often said that the eyes are the gateway to the soul, and that eyes don't lie. Your husband wants to share that complete openness and honesty with the person he loves while you are in the most inimate situation you'll ever be in.

Answer 2

It's a combination of all the answers above. Eye contact is very intimate. It reassures the other person that you're thinking about them and not someone else. It's a sign of love. It IS a window to the soul. I yield to all those who go before me here.

Answer 3

Maybe he's worried that you'll be thinking of something or someone else during s*x, and when he tells you to look directly at him, that's his way of assuring that you'll be thinking of him during s*x. I sympathize with you, though. I sometimes look away during s*x, because I'm concentrating on the feeling. So if you don't want to do it at a particular time, just re-assure him that you are still thinking of him even if you look away. ;-)

Answer 4

he may want to feel that intimacy that flows in your eyes while having s*x you may not want to look because your faking the whole thing

Answer 5

Ahhh good question...don't know what he could be looking for in your eyes...but generally during s*x my eyes are all over her body as well as her face...

Answer 6

It makes me feel more connected to my partner. It is more intense !!! I like seeing him in action

Answer 7

Intimacy...............

Answer 8

The eyes are the mirror of your soul. Some man want to know that you are there with them and not fantasizing or thinking about someone else. He just wants to see the passion in your eyes for him.

Answer 9

He wants to feel closer and more intimate with you.