Husband and I are researching domestic infant adoption (we live in CA). Friends who have adopted have all gone the international route, some voicing concern that this would reduce the likelihood of heartbreak and onerous expense, should a birth parent change his/her mind and sue to regain custody. No one, however, seems to have any actual data about how often this scenario plays out -- they can only point to the occasional high profile case that gets news coverage. Does this happen often, or does it really happen in only a small percentage of adoptions? Are we paranoid because of years of made-for-tv legal dramas over custody? I would greatly appreciate your insights and real life stories.
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