What's the reason my partner was rude on the phone?

Question

He is overseas & we were just talking. He told me that he thought I was smoothing him in the end. There are 3 possilbe reasons he said this:

1. I actually am smoothing him. After we spoke 4 15 minutes he wanted 2 go b/c apparantly he had a relative with him & was calling from a payphone. I was like 'can't we speak a bit longer' & he told me he wanted me to have my own life. I told him he wasn't my 'celebrity' & I don't think about him 24/7 but that I just miss him.

2. He was annoyed that I spoke 2 his best friend friend who I also used to date. He wanted to hang up like 1 minute after I told him I spoke 2 him on msn today. I felt there was tension there but I'm not sure if the tension was because...

3. I was logged into his msn. I wasn't doing it on purpose but I told him that I spoke 2 his friend (the ex) through his username (which I shouldn't have told him!!). He was acting all funny about that too but i explained 2 him that it just logged me in automatically since i deleted my own hotmail account. I don't know if he believed me...

Probably all 3 reasons r contributing to why he was rude & made my cry... but which do u think is the likely culprit reason?

Answer 1

I think its you talked to an ex or he is seeing someone else

Answer 2

Why are you playing head games with him? Why would you be contacting his best friend and an Ex? And why would you be telling him about it unless you want him to get upset? Not sure what you expected there, but if he's telling you youre smothering him and he needs space I would give him some space.