What's the reason that many persons are involve in adultery,extra marital affairs ? ?

Question

Whats the reason that many persons are involve in adultery, extra marital affairs ?be it a man/woman (esp in India)..We all know that it's a sin and not acceptable but the hardcore truth is that they are forming so many wans to involve in it even also the one who feels it is bad but then also..Will it ever stop or Arise more ? I think one should not involve in any comitted relationship if he/she wants to involve in all that ****..

Answer 1

Adultry whether by the man or woman shows poor home upbringing!!

Answer 2

Same reason as why the bank on the opposite side looks greener or an exotic wine (murgi) at home is considered equvalent to split milk (daal).

Answer 3

Hello Sudarshana

Adultery is prevalent in our society from ancient times, humans have being known to be mating multiple partners and the form of adultery has kept changing and has finally gone behind the closed doors with the fear of social outcast it casues for people involved in it.

By nature human species is polygamous just like other mammals, when we laid norms of marriage as an institution in our society it's we who formed the do's and dont's of this institution, however today due to changing social equations, rise of more nuclear families, the emotional support system provided by a joint family has gone, so under various circumstances both a male or a female partner starts looking for additional emotional support in the opposite s*x and there stems a extra martial relationship.

Some people carry off such relationship without guilt and without disturbing their current martial life, it is definitely cheating, however it's very difficult to think about the pro's and con's of having an extra martial relationship when you are into one.

Only when one of the either partners in an Extra martial relationship start getting possessive about each other, start overlooking their current married life, things start taking a bad turn.

It sound's bad but it's true, you cannot guarantee commitment today in any relationship, whether be it a GF,BF relation, or marriage, even a person with the strongest of emotional mind frame may get tempted or excited to practice adultrey, if couples do not work together to keep the zing in their relationship intact, they may seek additional emotional support elsewhere.

Answer 4

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i try guessing some reasons..

1) Loosing Love/Trust on BF/Husband

2) Variety

3) Needs

4) Force by others

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Answer 5

It is simple.

Answer 6

Well, my ex wife's excuse for cheating was that I was never home and always working. I just think she has no morals. I was gone often to support her and our kids so that they can live comfortable.

Answer 7

I wish i could answer you , however it's tooooooooooo late .... .......!

Answer 8

you know" other side is greener always"this is notin India but every where spreads like wild fire. This was existing in other nations,and it has caught our Indian society too. Now, it's in Metro's and Cosmos but spreading to Rural areas also. You know it's not fair from one to indulge in such activities.I agree fully with you.

Answer 9

i guess lack of character n morals is responsible for all this..temptations are always there for everybody but not everyone gives in..people who r weak n shallow inside...n r self centered cheat n betray n then give reasons to justify it....therez always a way to work around if a relationship is not fulfilling..some face it others look around n s***w it up big time...

Answer 10

Because today's society made it ok for people to cheat. They even promote it  by putting out a tv show called "desperate housewives". I do sometimes seem its pointless even getting married.  

Answer 11

there is no reason if it were reasonable it would make sense the problem is the marital view of commitment people make excuses not to honor it. so that they can fulfill a selfish desire

Answer 12

I completely agree with you but unfortunately some people don't.Not everyone cheats,but I think the ones that do are either just really selfish or they are looking for some attention they are not getting at home.Either way it's hurtful and dangerous with all the disease's out there

Answer 13

The procreational process in human society is based on sexual intercourse and a person devoids of the passion of procreation is not a real person. All healthy men and women want to have the inner desire of sexual intercourse since the universal power of creation is working in their brain, which is unavoidable under any circumstance.Therefore we cannot call sexual intercourse between men and women are immoral, perversion, adultery, or extramarital relationship, etc. This concept of adultery is a foolish assumption propounded by religions of this world, which is based on superstition and hypocrisy. No s*x, no children, no children, no humanity becasue "child is the father of man".  

Answer 14

  Their parents thought it was a good idea for them to get married to someone they dont even know . In time the miserable couples seek out the ones they actually want to be in contact  with .