What's the right thing to do here..?

Question

In my job-search process I asked one of my friends if he knew anyone in the industry am looking for. He said he knows a couple friends in my city and to give him my resume. But I am in a fix as am feeling odd about doing that.

Isn't the right way for me to ask the names of the people he knows, what industry they are, and to get me introduced to them? Then craft my resume and cover letter to suit those organizations, and then directly give my resume to these people?

I feel off forwarding a resume to my friend without knowing who it's going to or what organization.

So would it be OK for me to ask my friend to introduce me to these people and then I can deal directly with them?

Thanks guys...

Answer 1

Usually, the person who has the contacts would send an email introducing you (and ccing) you on it as well.

This is much better than you going directly to the contacts because they don't know you and aren't sure whether their friend will vouch for you or not.

It's also good to let your friend do it because maybe he has clout or maybe that person owes them a favor.

I wouldn't be push the issue of sending it directly to them just ask that you be cc'd on the emails.

Answer 2

All you can really do now, - is to send an eMail, or request the names in your city.

If he re-iterates what he said before, - then that's the only shot you have. He'll probably just "86" your resumes anyway.

There might be an informal code that discourages 'friends' giving other contacts, - and that that person being bombarded with eMails and phone calls from a "friend-of-a-friend".

Answer 3

Are you currently employed and looking for another position?  Are you worried about someone you know tipping off your boss?  Then you are right to be concerned and should find out more information from your friend.

Are you unemployed?  Let your friend give the resumes to his contacts.  Find out what organizations these are with.  You can ask your friend if you can be introduced.  If your friend is not comfortable doing that or if the people can not meet you at this time, then you should do as they say.

Answer 4

Not only is that fine, it makes you look even better because you are taking the initiative instead of just waiting for a phonecall. I say, ask him. It will make you stand out from anyone else applying.