What's the unkindest thing your spouse does or has done to you?

Question

Mine marginalizes me.

Answer 1

Cut off the s*x.  Didn't tell me he was impotent, just cut off the s*x.  I walked around for years thinking I was ugly, not good enough, etc.  It's been many years of frustration.  I pretty much have learned to live with it.  Now that I'm post-menopausal, it's not quite as hard.  Though I know I would be happier with a s*x life.  I am not willing to risk an STD or give him a reason to be rid of me.  I remember what dating was like.  I was a nice looking girl.  Had many dates, boyfriends.  But, sooner or later, I would catch the guy cheating and dump him.  Or he would be less that upfront about his past.  Dating is hard.  My life could be a whole lot worse.