My dad has been calling repeatedly without leaving messages and I don't always return my missed calls.
He got pissed at me because he "hasn't heard from me in a while". He seems to think that I should be available whenever he wants to speak to me and doesn't realize that I have my own schedule to keep.
Last time we spoke it was really awkward and hostile. He gets uptight very easily and for no reason. The conversation went something like this:
dad: how are you?
me: fine, how are you doing?
dad: (obviously leading up to something) im ok. so are you in town this weekend?
me: (was pretty sure id be out of town with my bf) well, i havent really made my plans yet.
dad: (in a demanding tone) if youre in town, how about we go have some dinner?
me: (not wanting to commit to anything) lets see if im in town before i make plans.
dad: (almost threatening) ok how about this. when YOU want to get together, YOU call ME.
me: (confused) uh ok.
dad: (sounding frustrated) ok bye.
what's up with that? why does he always get mad when he doesn't have his way?
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