What's with my scary, disturbing dreams?

Question

Yeah, I'm 12, so give me a break if this all sound childish.

The night before yesternight my dream was lovely... but embarassing. (had to do with my "crush" n all -blushes)

But yesternight it was horrible. I dreamed about toddlers from h**l, my sister getting pregnant and not wanting to take birth control, and my grandma (mom's mom) dying! My sister does have a serious boyfriend who she seems to be away alot with and my grandma has been sick. I'm scared to tell my mom cuz currently she hates my grandma and the thing with my sister is awkward. The toddlers from h**l is just scary!

What do my dreams mean?

Answer 1

I think you feel insecure about your grandma's illness and your sister being gone often. Maybe you should trust your sister a little more and talk to your grandma as often as possible. I don't think it is childish at all, we are the same age and I'm getting strange dreams as well, though not that detailed or drawn out. I have a dream that needs interpretation as well in case you would like to help.

Answer 2

i'd love to know what the h**l im talking about but im just gonna take an observers guess. Your sister getting pregnant sounds like you're afraid she might get in trouble because shes probably rash sometimes. Your grandma dying because of all the hate coming from your mom. Yes maybe ur sister has a steady boyfriend, but do u trust her? i dont believe in god, but the best u can do for ur grandma is pray, and now that im typing this i notice that your mom might not really hate ur grandmother but shes so worried she doesnt know any other way to react. i cant explain the toddlers LOL.

good luck with ur crush^_^

Answer 3

Lol, its called "last night" sweetie. I used to say yesterday night too.

All of your fears in real life are just being shown in your dreams. Your grandma is sick, so your scared that she's going to die. You don't want your sister to have a baby, so that's why your being attacked by the "toddlers from h**l".

These dreams probably won't be every night...it's probably just a one night thing anyway. Just calm down, realize its just a dream, and if the thing with your sister really bothers you bad then you should seriously go talk to her, even if its just about the dream and not her real life situation.

Answer 4

At twelve you are getting ready to go through h**l with the hormone firestorm that many feel.  If you have seen another relative become a woman then it may frighten you.  For some it is difficult and others seem to manage.  You are disturbed because you understand the power and accompanying danger involved with becoming able to reproduce.  The pleasure is attractive but you see the dangers.

Talk to an adult about your concerns it will save you from the toddlers from h**l.  Also discuss your fears of the changes that are caused by marriage and death and moving away.

Answer 5

From what we currently understand about them, dreams are reflections of your subconscious or something like that. If you are worrying or thinking about that stuff a lot while you're awake it could explain why your mind is thinking about it at night. I'd say it's most likely nothing.  

Answer 6

Well, Maybe your grandma's going to die around the time that your sister's going to give birth to an evil kid! I'm 12, too. I also have an older sister...but she doesn't have a boyfriend. And my family lost track of one of my grandma's when I was 7, she just disappeared. AND my mom hated her, and she hated my mom. God could be telling you about the future, or you could just be having a dream about your worst fears! No matter what, it's all part of God's plan.

Answer 7

This will sound stupid no doubt but if you tell someone your bad dream then you might not get it again.  Silly I know but it works with me.

Answer 8

They say your dreams are something that is going on in the present that is on your mind and it is just modified.

I am not a doctor or anything. But if I have to guess, I would say that you're worried about your grandma being sick and the dream was just a really strong version of that.

Depending on her age though, she will die eventually and that is sad.

Your mother should really make peace with her now.

As far as your sister, it is very common for girls in relationships to get pregnant and it is a possibility and maybe you have been thinking of that too.

As far as the toddlers from h**l.... who knows...  

Answer 9

You don't sound childish.  Dreams for women are different than dreams for guys so the guys won't give you a real answer.  When girls and women dream it's emotional, not so much action.  They're more powerful and meaningful and no one can tell you what they mean but you.  It sounds like there are a lot of changes going on in your family and it's impossible to know what will be the outcome and you might be afraid of all that can happen.

When you are alone and there is quiet and calm, lie down and close your eyes and remember your dream and ask the toddlers from h**l some questions, interview them.  Ask them what they want, why they are in your dream and if they want you to know something.  Let your subconscious mind relax and the toddlers will answer you and you should find understanding which should bring you peace of mind.  I use this technique so much that I can do it while I'm dreaming and so disturbing dreams don't bother me so much.  

Answer 10

Dream's are just random event's going through your mind. Your brain projects them (hence the dream)

They mean nothing. :)

Bad dreams are usually caused from being depressed.