What's wrong with scorpio men? ?

Question

My Scorpio, Unknown Rising boyfriend lacks the ability to follow through on most stuff and he got me (Libra, Taurus Rising) waiting on him all the time. He's just so busy all the time. How should I deal with him?

I suppose like any man---I have to have patience with him, but it's wearing thin.

Answer 1

Stop reading so much in to BS astrological stereotypes.   What month you were born has no bearing on who you are or what you do.  Both my brother and I are scorpios, and we are VERY different people.

Answer 2

My dad was a Scorpio and had major workaholic issues.  He couldn't sit still for a minute and worked even on Christmas.  My mom eventually divorced him.  She says it's the best decision she made.  I couldn't agree more.

Answer 3

My scorp definitely did this a lot early on.  Or he'd be talking about how much he would want to see me.  We'd be in the middle of making plans and then he'd suddenly drop off the face of the earth for two or three weeks.  Now all you Scorp men please weigh in on this, since I can only comment from the observing side.  But, my take on it is that when their feelings get so strong they shut down from time to time because it scares them.  What worked for me was not waiting for him, but if he didn't show or he didn't finish making plans to go ahead and do it anyway so it at least I was having fun and he was seeing that he was missing out.  Second, patience.  I found just being patient with him, eventually as he got more comfortable with his strong feelings for me he became better with his follow through.  Scorp men are fabulous, but they can definitely be a little bit of a pain early on and it can be a bit of a rollarcoaster.  Best of luck and I hope it all works out! :)

Answer 4

Yeah in my experience it has happened a lot and it has made our relationship suffer. He's gone right now, no phone calls no nothing and last we spoke he was irritated with me and I have no idea why. I'm just gonna continue living life though, until he gets over or out of his mood. You can't fall apart if he doesn't come over you have a life too.  

Answer 5

every sign has its priorities, for libra their loved ones are the priority for scorpio its the third one on the list. first the job, then the s*x(with partner) and third the main relationship. sorry to put in a harsh way, but its reality, libra demands attention in the love relationship (which we all want) and scorpio does care, its just that without the job being the priority they feel powerless to take care of their girl.