with our 9 and 10 year old kids. We have joint custody and I have primary placement. He told me he would not be attending this trip but his girlfriend and her family will. He lives with her in her home. Currently they are NOT getting along and fight constantly around the kids, Our son declined to go immediately and our daughter is only going to please her dad. I am very close with my kids, my daughter has said once to me she does not want to go and then changed her mind after spending a weekend at her dads, I feel that the Dad was not honest and upfront with me from the beginning, knowing that he would not be attending due to his job. I also feel the daughter is being forced to take sides. Would you tell the parent to reschedule his vacation when work permitted, or let the child go?
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