I want to go through Navy OCS to become an officer. However, the books I have read such as "The Division Officer's Guide" and the "Bluejacket's Manual" clearly state that officers and enlisted can't be around each other. However, I mainly see things about dating. Are the examples below fraternization (sorry if the below sounds asinine, but I'm trying to see where fraternization starts.)
-Having a normal conversation with an enlisted personnel on your time off on the back of the ship. (Being their friend... man that sounds asinine.)
-Being around enlisted personnel who have to stand watches and making their watch not so horrible.
-Offering to do enlisted laundry for pay.
-Cleaning the officer's head with the enlisted personnel assigned to it.
I mean, I want to be the kind of officer in which I can get the respect of my subordinates, look like one of their kind, actually act like a decent human being, and not having people swear about me behind my back such as "Aye aye, a*****e." I want to be the type of officer in which enlisted personnel would think back in the past and say," Yeah, I remember him. He was a good guy."
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