What Can A Woman Benefit?

Question

if she is in major debt incurred by her--- why would she want to marry a guy that has a clean credit history, and good work while she just stays at home and teaches a piano lesson here and there.

Wouldn't she bring the guy down as well, if she married him?

What are her true motives

Answer 1

Oh, I don't know.  Maybe she's not thinking about money.  Maybe she's in love.

Answer 2

she's in love...

i improved my bad credit as much as possible before i got married because my husband has bad credit, come to find out, the bank told us that my credit wont be drug down because of his.

Answer 3

maybe shes in love??? its not gonna make her credit better so i dont think she could gain anything from it

Answer 4

Maybe she just likes the guy. I, unfortunately, came with a lot of debt. My ex-husband took me for over $80,000 (and he spent all of the money we both made while we were together), so my new husband has had to help pay some of that off.

It sucks, and I feel bad about it, but there wasn't a lot I could do.

Answer 5

If you are asking then obviously you aren't sure about her either.She could be in love or she is looking for you to get her out of debt.If it is alot of debt then tell her she has to go out and get a good paying job to help pay the bills.I don't know about piano lessons but I don't think it would pay alot.Another thing if she incurred alot of debt by herself then you get married and she could mess up your good credit to.Something to think about.

Answer 6

It all depends...

Answer 7

Everything & every situation isn't perfect nor is it always as it seems. Perhaps there is no one that has been a role model in her life to tell her about the things that are important. It could also be a situation where she can be in love. You can have bad credit and be in love; you can also have a job, good credit and have negative intensions. Get to know her & talk to her about her goals & dreams in life...just maybe...she just need a lil guidance.

Answer 8

If she really cares about him, she'd make sure to keep her finances separate from his, her own bank accounts, bills, filing separate tax returns. No joint anything.

If the piano is her true calling, then she needs to make that a career. If she's teaching piano everyday, and doing her best, then she's on her way.

Is she marrying someone that you care about? Is he okay with her financial situation and career? Then let it go.

Answer 9

Only golddiggers and busybodies care about that. Obviously that wasn't an issue to him when he chose to marry her, so why do you care? It's not your business. If someone is in love, why do you automatically assume that they have ulterior motives? Why not take something at face value without adding hidden agendas that aren't even valid?

Answer 10

Maybe there are no hidden agendas. It's not like a 'normal' person with poor credit looks specifically for mate with good credit. I mean, it's a plus, but come on!!!