What Can I do when I sorta like a guy who likes me, but my BFF likes him?

Question

Ok, so at school there's this guy. I sort of like him, but my best friend has had a crush on him since i don't know when! I know he likes me cuz he told me, but what should I tell my friend?

Answer 1

You back off! My 15 year old daughter just lost her bff over the same deal. Serious, as you grow up you'll see there is an unspoken rule,Never date who your best friend likes. And Never date your best friends ex. And Never ever date your best friends ex-husband!

Answer 2

If he likes you tough, take him

Answer 3

Definitely think about the effect it would have on your friendship. Do you see it changing if you decided to go out with him and how would your friend feel? Maybe you could tell your friend what he said to you, but that you will do nothing if she doesn't want you to because that is what is important to you. Also say that if she finds it too weird that you will end it with him because you value her friendship more.

Answer 4

Tell your best friend. If she starts bizatching, find a new best friend. Namely, your guy friend.

Answer 5

No, step back. Don't ruin a friendship over a boy.

Answer 6

well just explain that you've liked him forever too, and that he likes you, your friend will get over it. Your life is about you, not your friends. Make yourself happy.

Answer 7

you should ask him to ask you out infront of your front and then infront of ur friend tell him that give you some time to think. then ask ur friend if you should date him as he asked u out. i m pretty sure she will understand cuz she saw him asking u out.