What Do Saudi Men Like to Ask Women?

Question

Just wondering.....Thanks;-p

Answer 1

Saudi men wont come up to you and chat with you in public here...

but if you are finding yourself in a more westernized group of folks, you might be talking with a Saudi man..

and they are polite, they wont ask you anything uncomfortable

they might ask you how you find the country different from your own.. they will ask about politics.. (right now thats a big issue).. if you are American, they will ask you who you are voting for Obama or McCain...

They will ask you if you are muslim, and what you like about it..

they love hearing stories about convertion and how you came to know Islam..

They will joke also.. believe me.. they can throw out some wingers...

they will ask you what you think about being your husbands 2nd wife.. (they just love asking this, although you are your husbands only wife, they will wink and laugh at you)...

but overall.. they are diplomatic and polite..

its the women you need to be warry of...

they will ask you some of the most embarrassing questions.. especially with hidden agendas..

they ask if you were a virgin before marrying your saudi husband.. (yes they will) and then they ask if you were muslim before or after marriage, to find out if you only converted to please him...

I dont know why the women love to ask these two questions.. but you better get ready, and what I always do (after many embarrassing times) I now turn the question back on them and ask them if they were virgins when they got married.. That shuts them up real quick... hahahahahaha!

lol @ soul.. .."yellow evil smirk & smile?"... haha!

Gloria, I hope we havent scared you away... (this thread is hilarious, I am laughing my head off now)

Answer 2

Ask women for what?

U mean asking them for a date?

u can find good and bad in every where , not only Saudis

Answer 3

are you available

Answer 4

The idiot that said woman are sneaky and disgusting has said it all.what the **** are you saying,you put woman under these black cloth because if you dont they will have s*x with many.now i now the truth.

Answer 5

some of them are corrupted.

Answer 6

If a you are a stranger ,you wouldn't  get respect from a  Saudi lady    by throwing to her  couple of  questions  ..The Simplest question like ((How are yeah)) can turn out to be a DISASTER..It will be understood that you are in to something bad.........sigh

Answer 7

when i was in school, i worked part time best buy, in the media dept... i would have saudi men ask question about movies and and just regular questions about how i feel here being in "USA" as if i'm this different creature from another world...

but most people would really be nice, speak in arabic and try finding out if i still remember how to speak it!! and ask about what movies i like, what i'm studying, and the usual stuff....

i guess i would just not answer much and it would really be a dead give away that i dont want to be bothered much....

Answer 8

first of all ....loooooooooooooooool @mintee...God, girl! guess i should keep my guards up in the eastern prov. never heard anything like this back in jeddah...but i agree, it's the women that anyone should worry about.

for some reason, women are sneaky...they use every "tactic" to get as much information possible and usually it's for a purpose....conspirecies, theories, motives, intentions, entire lives are derived and constructed from these "interregations" ..goes to the most detailed and some times twisted analysis you can manage to think of...used later on to "make you" or "break you" in the society...trust me the womens network in one saudi city is way more powerful than the mafia...some go on national levels too...

men in general enjoy a good sense of humor and are polite around women (at least the majority are)....they will keep the conversation "general" ...some will avoid directing anything towards you...simply as a sign of respect (to you or to thier own culture...specifically if there's a male companion...most of the talk will be directed to him or to both rather than directly you)...but others (in a city like jeddah where talking to women isn't a cultural taboo) the conversation will range depending on how relaxed and comfortable the discussion gets...ofcourse, first times are always "politically correct"...but subsequent conversations...especially in one of the preferable settings we jeddawis like so much (finger food and snack trays coming and going, cold and hot beverages flowing, nuts and desserts passing, smoking, music and songs playing or even better sung, cards and backgammon, the late starry night and lazy waves of the red sea....you know what i'm talking about) talking gets much easier...defenses are lowered...hearts and minds open....and you get to have a true conversation about basicly everything and anything...from what brings you to saudi, how do you find it, what are your likes and dislikes, to job and career debates and gossip....politics (local, regional and international are all welcomed and enjoyed)...like mintee said, american presidency is "in" now... obama vs clinton is still a very much enjoyed issue.

comparing travels and different cultures...pros and cons...are a well known saudi hobby....

dirt, dish and all the gosspi isn't a 'women only' activity...men share it and enjoy it just as much around here....so you'll be hearing some "local social soaps"  ;)

sports...oh god...sports are for sure to come up...wither women decide to join in or start thier own side conversation...

if you're single....and a saudi man is interested (assuming we're talking about a well mannerred saudi) he'll approach you very slowly compared to just walking up to you and popping a lame line! stay sharp...body language, facial expressions and tiny hints would give him away...trust me, he'll pay double the attention to every little thing you do or say to try to determine wither you find him the least bit interesting...or wither you like him a wee bit more than the average...something that'll give him hope and courage to pursue you or forget it and save face...

he'll take small steps in coming closer...it may start with seating arrangements...no i'm not kidding. over time, when you two had a couple of "conversations" and now are more comfortable around each other, have some knowledge of your personalities, activities and so on...."deeper" questions and topics will be discussed....might be bold enough to ask a question or two that might be of a personal nature (nothing close to what mintee's been asked ;))...emails and phone numbers would be exchanged...smaller group trips and outings would be arranged to "show you around...i know this great place you'll like...i should take you there...." sort of stuff at first with two or three friends tagging along....then it hits off and depending on the guy (his family, social scene, culture, religious practices...etc) the dating (or engagement!) would be shaped...

ofcourse i can't deny that there are bold arrogant and filthy saudi men out there that you might be unfortunate enough to bump into that'll make you all sorts of uncomfortable with the way they stare at you, wink, or give you that yellow evil smirk and smile and throw some weird jokes and questions your way every two seconds....even if you are married or involved...i rarely meet those and if by sheer accident i ended up sitting with a group such a person is in i usually just excuse my self, get up and leave...no need to mingle with such a low life...

if you're interested in knowing "precise" flirting lines, comments and questions...or even more "intimate" expressions that saudi men use.....well, a saudi "man" should be answering this...i tried to give a general view of your question...as a saudi woman my self...i'm kind of an observer here...(unless you're asking about what saudi men talk about with saudi women...? hmmm....then i went about this the wrong way...lol)

Answer 9

it totally depends on the context, who si the guy and who is the girl, and where? in street, or they are fiances? or colleagues at work? is the girl saudi or not? and how open or close minded the guy, how relegious or party type is he? if they are nerds or crazy types, polite or aggressive ...

i know one story in the US, where saudi friends were in a cafe, a very queit cafe, and next to them a saudi guy with american girl. and they heard every word in their conversation. so, they kinda were spying out of curiousity ..

after looooooong pause, and the conversation seems pointless, he asked

"so, what's your favorite colour"?

and everyone exploded in laugh

okay, personally, and when i am at a relaxed acceptable place, and i have conversation with a single saudi girl, like a colleague at work or distant relative, i like to ask about a question out of teasing. will she cook when she get married?

the conversation gets very interesting

most trendy girls today think it is absolutely unacceptable to even think that a guy will dare and even think a girl would step into the kitchen for any reason other than drinking water.

Answer 10

Mintee's answer just about sums it all up. Saudi men always have hidden agendas and ulterior motives if you are a westerner, simply because those are the only women that they can safely flirt with. On the whole, they tend to be quite dominating as is customary with their own women. Be alert at all times and don't allow yourself to be caught up in a situation that you will have difficulty getting out of.

Answer 11

They like to ask them for s*x.  I'm serious and when they slap them, they are shocked because they never expect a woman to hit them. It hurts there pride

Answer 12

I think Bojo clearly won the BA.

Answer 13

Kaiful Haaaalllll (how are you)

Answer 14

I guess all the above are women.

Well, this is the answer from a Saudi man..

I would say “HI, how you doing”

Or

“Ahlan, keef halek”

:P

Answer 15

do you have money?  

do you have home?  

do you come?