What Do U Do, When There No Passion?

Question

Is there a way to sustain a relationship although there's no passion between the two of you anymore.

Do you stay together and keep trying although you've been trying for months now, and just cheat and try to find the passion elsewhere so that things balance themselves out. Or do you just accept that we can't rekindle the passion and move on?

Answer 1

Passion, like trust, can never be fully regained... better to move on

Answer 2

if you are married, you don't cheat, if you're not married, you don't cheat!!!! a marriage needs work.. you make it work, you bring back the passion.. i bring the passion back to my marriage with lingerie and giving my man a show...

Answer 3

I believe marriages are made or broken in the very not passionate moments...when the bills aren't able to be paid or the car breaks down, the baby is sick, or the husband just lost his job. Marriages are sustained in the moments that really have no passion at all....where communication and respect, compassion and patience live. When you feel like giving up but realize that marriage is a blessing and together you'll weather any storm. That is where the real marriage is, not in how long you can keep it up and keep the "passion" alive....a marriage can work absent of "passion" if two people are truly committed to one another "until death do you part."

Answer 4

I think you shouldn't give your partner free access to your income.

Its interesting how the passion can build up when your partner wants you to spend a little money on them.

Give any thoughts to her thinking you are just her extra wallet.

Answer 5

move on

no passion / no chance to be happy

Answer 6

leave. doesn't sound good. you need to tell your partner what's going on and if s/he doesn't try then you are going to leave. Maybe that would get the spark back.  

Answer 7

All relationships lose the fire and you have to work your *** off to get it back.  If it's only been months, then I'd still do something about it.  

In my case, it was years, and I had to get out or I was going to go crazy.  I couldn't cheat, the guilt from it would have killed me.  But there was no intimacy, no passion, nothing and he had no interest in rekindling anything.  I felt like I was living with a stranger.

Answer 8

umm i think just accept the fact that there is no  passion..and move on..if you cheat then it will just lead to more serious problems (coming for both sides)

Answer 9

There are s*x therapists for this type of thing.  Usually, the lack of passion lies in an unresolved issue between the two of you.  Definitely don't cheat and try to rekindle.  Relationships are hard work in part for this reason.  Good luck!

Answer 10

i believe the realationship is over .. sad you cant rekindle passion  

Answer 11

No matter what you're going through, you should NEVER cheat.  You married him for better or worse...you took those vows to love and cherish each other and that includes being faithful to one another.  Your vows should be the most sacred thing.  

As far as rekindling passion...do whatever it takes!!  Start dating again!  Find new places or new positions.  It takes two to make it, Hon!  Work on it together.  Seek counseling.  There are things that can be done, but you can't sit back and do nothing...you've got to work on it.  Stop wasting your time thinking about having an affair...put those energies in saving your marriage.  Cheating should be the last thing on your mind!  You're better than that and your spouse deserves more than to be cheated on.

Is it possible that there's a medical reason for this lack of passion?  Scope out all the reasons, then fix them!

God's blessings on you and yours...Always!