What Do You Care About More With People?

Question

Appearance or personality? Now I care about both, but I care about personality ALOT more.. caring about looks and just looks is really dumb if you ask me. But hey, that's just me. I'm not sure if my question title makes sense but I basically meant what do you care about when you first meet a person, date a person, blah blah.. that stuff.

Answer 1

Did you know that in relationships, being ugly lowers your chances, but beauty doesn't help you that much at all?

Answer 2

Appearance does say a lot and that's the first thing that you can see. I'm not saying I ONLY care about looks, but I'd most likely want to chat up a guy who is neatly dressed and clean, rather than a dirty looking man with ripped jeans, y'know? I agree with you that personality is more important, but looks do make an impression. It's like when people go in for job interviews; the person more neatly dressed will most likely make a better impression.

But if I'm trying to date someone, I'd much much much rather have someone with a great personality than a narcissistic man who has a melt-down every time he runs out of gel for his hair.