What Do You Despise More? ?

Question

Which can you not stand more?

You being led on by a guy who seems nice and geniune, while he knew intentionally that he has a girlfriend but never told you and confessed to you subtly that he likes you?

Or your partner cheating on you with someone you don't even know but looks and acts exactly like you?

OR....

Who would you forgive first if your partner cheated on you with your best friend?

Answer 1

These are all exactly the same, they all deal with cheating.

Cheating is a dispiteful act, no matter how it's done.

Answer 2

I think the second situation- it's one thing for my man to cheat, but with a 'clone' of me- that would really make me mad

Answer 3

I would despite my partner and best friend betraying me above any other situation.  Some random "nice" dude would be easy to let go of but someone you trust and love would be hard to forgive.  I do not tolerate betrayal in my relationships.  If my husband and best friend had an affair I would never speak either of them again.

Answer 4

I despise all of thee above, but what do you do if your husband is your best friend and the woman is just a mutual acquaintance/a good friend? With that, I'd forgive my hubby/my best male friend first, because I stand by my man. Besides, the good friend doesn't care what man she is with, she just wants a man by her side at all times...that isn't really a friend in my book. She is drama queen/homewrecker that preys on men in a happy relationship, because "she craves that kind of relationship" (some of that was her actual words). It gives life a paranoid feeling, but I think it's silly to throw away a 22 year friendship/10 year marriage over a homewrecker that can't get her head straight. That kind of friend can be replaced, because obviously no matter how much she says she cares for this family and our children, she doesn't have our best interests at heart. Luckily, hubby finally woke up when he was almost faced with loosing his own family over it. =)

Answer 5

I despise both situations and would forgive my best friend before I forgave my partner. I have to admit that it would be hard to forgive my bf right away, but I would eventually.

Answer 6

I wouldn't and didn't put up with any of that mess you just wrote.  No one should ever have to make a decisionlike that, just dump the troll. Easier said than done, but life is too short.