What Does it mean to feel this way? (very weird feeling)?

Question

my friend asked me this and then told me this and I could not answer it I need help...

My friend feels that he is or should be a slave to women, (to say it very boldly let me explain) my friend is very in touch with his emotions and he also respects women as if he was g*y but is not. he said he feels that when he is in a relationship that she is superior to him in all ways and she should lead him and teach him and in return he will defend her. (I guess in S&M he should be the slave) anyways hes a smart guy but he "loves women as if their his God."

I'm guessing he likes a girl that puts her arm around him.

he may be like kind of like a dog who is loyal to his owner and looks up to her (the dog's owner) and will always guard her.

well thats pretty much what he told me and your probably as confused as me. is it normal to feel that way or is there something going on or what?

Answer 1

That's not that strange. His age matters very much - if he's 40, he's an S&M'er. If he's 15, then he will probably grow out of it - especially if he has not had that much experience with women - he's just a romantic going through the cult-female-fetishism thing in his own way. Be glad that you guys can talk about this stuff.

Some guys like to be dominant, others like to be submissive.

Some guys idolize, some do not.

to each his own.

Answer 2

That's kinda weird in a way. But maybe that is just his way of "respecting girls". Although, if he was like that, I would think he was extra clingy. But in a way you want a guy who shows affection and cares.

But personally, I have never heard of a guy who acts like that :|

Oh well, that is his decision and every woman should be treated like a princess (:

Answer 3

That's pretty much the strangest thing I've ever heard...

Answer 4

ok lets break it down

first of all i pride myself with be in touch with my true feelings so sensitive sweet guys are a turn on for me

sweet does not mean a doormat

i dont want a guy that will be a yes man

i want the guy i love to be honest enough to tell me how he really feels

i want that because he will care enough about how i really feel when my turn to tell him

love is based on mutual respect

there is only one god and he is jehovah

jenny wilson is a smart sweet babe but she is only human and no ones god

treating me sweet and special melts my heart but i want it because to be because he finds me special not superior

it is wonderful to be sweet and sesitive

as a matter of fact it is the bbest way to be

being sweet is not about being a doormat it is about caring enough about yourself to care about another person

respecting your self gives you the strength to be ssweet and respectful of others

the confusion you are feeling is because people equate being sweet with being a doormat

i am nobodys doormat and would never intentionally treat someone as a doormat but i am the sweetest peeep you will ever find

ok i love putting my arm around my bf  cus i am a sweet huggable babe

your friend seems like a sweety

tell him that he needs to show that by being sweet in a mutual caring relationship not as a basis for a one sided mess

if you wanna learn something from this babe learn this

to be truely sweet you have to respect yourself as well as others . only then can you have the true stregth to be truely sweet and not just a doormat

being sweet is having the srength to be that way

it is not weakness but the source of true strength

well these are the thoughts of this sweet huggable babe who is just a flawed human

treat me special but not superior

treat me with mutual respect

i hope all this makes sense to you cus it comes from the heart

keep on being sweet