What I'm Going to do.?

Question

Well, most people replied to my other question about my mother rudely (but they're just idiots).

I've made up my mind, I'm going to ignore her for a few days until she apologises properly and promises to not blame others for her actions (especially the cat).

So what, I forgot my phone, everyone forgets something sometimes! But she shouldn't be calling my friends at 4pm, THE TIME I GET HOME. She said she was bored, didn't want to do this project and decided to text me instead, but I wasn't replying because my phone fell under my bed.

Last night later on, she said it was THE ONE FRIEND she texted, so I was like, 'Fine ok, we're cool.' Then she was telling me how she had to finish her project at 11pm instead of spend some time with me. Quite upsetting to me since she was wandering where I am, but when I am home, she spends 0 time with me. Makes me tear up writing this part.

BUT TODAY, my other friend was telling me how my mum was texting her too. Lying is bad a bad thing to do.

She deserved the telling off from me, so to all those that called me a spoilt girl, I don't care what you say. I'll do what I want and I don't want to listen. Of course, I'll take notice of the polite responses because that's the way to do it.

Answer 1

I agree with you, even if I'm the only one.  I didn't see the first question, but it is highly unethical, as well as an invasion of privacy, for someone to get into another person's phone and start text messaging all the people listed like they were the person who owned the phone.  Calling on her own phone is one thing, but using yours (I assume it was yours since she had everyone's number to call.), and I assume also spending your paid for minutes, is more than just rude.  It could be considered stealing.  You ought to send her a bill to pay for all the time she used up.  I'll bet that would stick in her craw for a while.  Hang in there dear.  As far as I can tell, your mom is wrong and not you.

Answer 2

parents are never perfect, we all wish they were, but they are human and often act like big kids themselves, if you can talk to close friends instead, it's far better than bottling things up

Answer 3

I think you need to ask your mother to have a talk. You two need to find a way to spend some time together having a a good time - like a regularly scheduled going out to the movies and ice cream once a week. You could even try cooking dinner and sitting down and eating together. That's how I would start building the trust that has been broken and communication that has been lost.

I didn't read the other post so I only know from this one.

Answer 4

I like what you've chosen to do, it seems correct.. x*x

Answer 5

Ok then....I guess she just got a bit carried away with the msgs coz she wanted  to spend some time with you. I don't think you shouldn't talk to her for a few days because of that, instead how about just fixing the fight.

Answer 6

You need to grow the h**l up. One day you are going to need your mother. You actually need her now but you are just to ungratful and stupid to realize it. You better be thankful that you have a mother that puts up with your smart a$$ mouth and disrepectful attitude. You don't deserve to even have a cell phone with the way you act. You need to seriously take a reality check. The only "Idiot" here is you.

Of course you will take notice of the poilte responses AKA the answers you want to hear from someone kissing your butt to get the ten points.

Answer 7

You have to give respect to get respect, and that goes both ways. Sometimes parents want to be their childs friend, and when there exist a high degree of mutual respect, it's great. But, sometimes a parent wants to be your friend, and they attempt to impose the demand for parental respect, that does not always work. I get along well with my kids, I'm always there to listen and provide advice, but I know I'm not their friend. That really requires a certain empathy with their age, and I'm not 19 or 14, been there and done that, but in a different time. Good luck..

Answer 8

I don't understand why you've asked people:

"what are you going to do?"

because you've clearly just said at the end that:

"I'll do what I want and I don't want to listen"

You said your mum is working on a project, this is probably really stressing your mum out and will be taking up alot of her time. Try and be abit more supportive for your mum, if you want to spend more time with her then offer to help her out with other jobs such as cleaning, cooking, food shopping and then you're mum will have more time to arrange to spend time with you. Also think to yourself why did your mum lie? It seems to be that she lied because she knew you would react in such a negative way and then you went and proved her right by having a go at her.