What I ask is how to be ultimately happy,happy in every aspect of every thing ,person,place in ones life.?

Question

Some days on top of the world and other days hum bla. I look around me and see that I have lots of things and then those things start to look as lots of stuff.Food has lost its flavor,I feel that I only exsists and not living. The relationship I'm in isn't a relationship at all. I am so very loney,very loney to the point I am begeing to feel sorry for myself and I did not ever would think my life would come to that,not my life.Feeling unappreciated,unrespected,unwanted,unlov... to no exsitence,life not valued by others that I think should feel those things for me other than myself.

Answer 1

Welcome to life. I heard once that all the things you own eventually own you. As far as the rest of life is concerned. You will always have your ups and downs. Finding contentment with what you have...having a profound sense of compassion for humanity can be a good starting point for happiness. But my dear, life is ugly, life is cruel, life is chaotic. It is part and parcel of your existence. Life can also be beautiful, mysterious, full of love and joy. But you will never have one without the other. If you do..then kindly share those drugs around will you.

Answer 2

That happiness for which you are yearning exists deep within yourself.

You don't need to search for your identity from others.  You don't need verification of your beliefs from others...

Instead, find that contentment, that overflowing joy that you exist, in the higher level consciousness that is within all of us, but is untapped by most of us.