What People Shouldn't Be Thinking About?

Question

One of my ex boyfriends/very close friends died on Sunday in a street bike accident, his name was Kevin. I'm dating a guy named Travis now he was also friends with Kevin. Kevin's viewing is tomorrow and I'm planning on going with Travis, considering we were both so close to him. Everyone is flipping out Saying that its messed up that I'm going to my ex-boyfriends viewing with my current boyfriend. To me, this shouldn't even be a concern. Someone we all loved has passed away and all people are thinking about is who I'm going with to the viewing. What do you guys think? Is this a messed up situation, and do you agree with what people are saying?

Thanks, I need your opinions.

Answer 1

i think you should go. maybe your boyfriend would feel happier if you came. I think your ex would see that you really do care and he might view you different to and yeahh who cares what people say if you knew the guy and sad he died then just go.

Answer 2

dont listen to what ppl are saying. if yu wnna go wth yer current bf then go for it, dont let immature a******s get in yer way

hope i helpd !

Answer 3

Sunshine-

You need to go to Kevin's viewing with Travis- and not concern yourself with other people think. You're right- someone special to you died. Anyone at the viewing that is specualting about "who is there with who" should not even be there. Obviously, the real reason you are all going to be there is to give respect to him, his family and friends.

Don't worry so much about what anyone else thinks. Do you really want to be close to someone that is so shallow?

  

Answer 4

No. It's not a problem at all. they talk like this because they have nothing else to do. don't worry. pray for the departed soul.

Answer 5

hi sunshine . i am sorry for the loss you have had . by all means , GO !

you and your current boyfriend have every right to be there and be part of that viewing .

you take care and do what your heart tells you and you can't go wrong .    *hugs *  d.

Answer 6

While I agree that you and your boyfriend are perfectly entitled to go to your friend's(former boyfriend) funeral: if you are catching a lot of heat from everyone, then perhaps you shouldn't go. If there is any trouble, no matter who starts it, then you will be the one blamed. Perhaps you should think of some alternate means of remembering/honouring the deceased.

Answer 7

You are absolutely right.Go ahead and dont care about barking dogs.Best wishes

Answer 8

its not messed up, you are goign with your boyfriend to the funeral of a freind, who was once your boyfriend.

hey your both friends of the guys, maybe if the guy died when you were still goign outand you found a new guy to go to the viewing tat would be be screwed up, but as far as i see theirs nothign wrong with you and Travis both going to the veiwing

Answer 9

i dont think its messed up. the past is the past and u need to go and show your respects :]

Answer 10

i think people should be more worried about kevin and not about what your doing, or who you go with!!! dont worry about what other people are saying! just do wat you do girl

Answer 11

seriously that is kind of messed up that you two are going together. i understand that you want to be there to support your friend but out of respect for the kevin you should at least come separate. i'm not concerned with what the people think and i do understand how you feel about it but think about this: do you think he would accept you and travis dating in the first place and would you want him to show up to your funeral with his new girlfriend who is also your close friend??