What REALLY happens at a bachelor party?

Question

My boyfriend went to a bachelor party for one of his buddies and said he had too much tequila, and did some crazy crazy things. He said he would never divulge any details. I know its common to get a stripper and whatnot---but since he made a big deal about the whole party and went out of his way to tell me that whatever happened there will remain a secret my imagination is running wild. Is it common for bachelor party goers to hook up with random chicks? to engage in weird sexual games with strippers? I don't know what happens--help me out.

Answer 1

Crazy crazy things and blaming it on tequila so it sounds like.Yeah,I would question him.Hiding something from you.

Answer 2

Yeah.  My fiance isn't having a bachelor party either, and he really doesn't want one either.  (lucky me!!!)  But yeah.  I saw a special on tv about what goes on, and one previous stripper said she would pass out condoms to the guys, they would put them on in the bathroom, and come out for the lapdance and fill them up in their pants. EWWW.  They also talked about wanting the guys to get liquored up because then they drop more money.  Gross.  But what could you expect from someone who takes their clothes off from money?? Nothing but trash in my opinion.

Answer 3

At my fiance's brother's bachelor party the strippers dropped lifesavers into the guy's mouths ... without using their hands. Let's just say they all could have used a VD test afterward. I never knew that strippers did things like that. I always just imagined the usual lap dance, but I guess times have changed. After that story there in no way in h**l my guy is having strippers at his bachelor party.

Answer 4

all guys there so maybe it was a g*y experience but you only go as far as you want so if he went to far you should dump him.the only girls are strippers and raffling of bj happens but you don't have to turn your ticket in to claim your prize.maybe you need to go out.

Answer 5

All that really happens is a lot retards acting like retards.

Answer 6

i wouldnt stress out over the thing. he must have felt a little guilty if he fessed up and told you he drank to much. but he also might be testing you at the same time by leaving out the details. ive learned with my boyfriend that the more i act like i dont care about things like that, the more guilty he feels and eventually he will fess up if there was any wrong doing. most women try to control men and want to know every detail of what they do. why waste your time being like that. bottom line is if he loves you, and he comes home to you every night, then dont stress out. guys have to show off and do there own thing at parties like that. its was probably harmless.. plus even if there are strippers we all know that they only strip for the money. it isnt like they would go home with anyone lol. its a job like nothing else..

Answer 7

I live in las vegas and know a thing or two about strippers. If a woman has standards low enough to strip for money she won't have any qualms for having s*x for a little more money.

But you know your husband better than anyone. If you trust him then you don't need to worry. If you are seriously second guessing what happened then you should second guess your marriage.