What Should I DO???????????????????

Question

okay i have liked this guy for about a year

im like addicted or something?

i try getting over him and ignoring him and just try to get away and forget everything

but i end up talking to him and being friends and that leads into flirting and stuff

so i went on a date with him this weekend

and it was pretty good, we made out of course

so i dont know what he wants from me

i need to talk to him!

but the only way i see him is though school

and im REALLY shy and its hard to talk

what should i do??

just talk to him through IM or texting?

((i tryed texting him during school and he didnt respond))

-Thanks :)

he is my ex by the way

lol

Answer 1

How can you still be really shy around him if he's your ex?  That just doesn't make any sense.  Anyway, I'll repeat my response here:

Personally, I think the guy is using you. He knows you still like him and it gets his ego going. Then he gets a rush of hormones and acts all nice and stuff to you so you'll hook up with him. After he's gotten his "fix" then he ignores you again.

You really need to find someone else to obsess about.