What Should I Do? I'm SO CONFUSED!!?

Question

Ok so my guy friend who i knew liked me at the time asked for my # 2 months ago. The first night he called like a zillion times and left flirty messages that i checked the next day cause my phone was off. At first when it was just him and no one else around him while he was talking to me on the phone, he was awesome & our convos were going great. But then it was so weird, he started avoiding me & acted like a jerk talking to me cuz his friend who hates me was with him cause he liked me & not her. At first he was obsessive now i am! We hardly talk anymore and it sucks. I called him 2 weeks ago but he was busy. He called a week later. I ignored his call then the next day he called again and left a message saying i'll talk to you later. The next day I left a message that i'm not sure he got cuz normally he calls after i leave a message. What does this mean & should i call him or see if he calls me again? (it's been a week). Plus at first his love life sucked now all of a sudden he has a gf. He told me he loved me & he cared abut me. Not in love cuz we aren't dating were just friends. I don't get it he used to be crazy about me now he doesn't even bother. PLEASE HELP!!!! What does this mean?

Answer 1

It means that he's not man enough to either tell you he's not interested anymore, or that he's not man enough to tell his girlfriend that he has you as a friend. Either way, he's a loser and you shouldn't bother with him. He will be the one to lose, especially if he's stuck with a controlling gf. No guy really likes that. He's probably PW. Just leave it be, and find someone else and chalk it up to being good while it lasted. You don't deserve the up and down of an uncertain guy. Hope this helped.