What To Say To A Friend Who Has A Crush On My Brother?

Question

My friend and I are bother 20 and my brother is he's 28 years old. He's divorced and has been in the military for 10 years now. We live near Ft. Bragg, North Carolina so there are plenty of available military men to go around.

However my friend is trying her hardest to get my brother to notice her and I think its really pathetic. She has a one year old daughter and another on the way (different daddy) and so I dont see why anyone would want that.

She keeps asking me all about his rank in the army, about his ex, when she goes and comes from work (so she can figure out how much he makes), and all this stuff that I really don't know the answers to and if I did why would I tell her?

What should I tell her cuz I doubt my brother is interested in some girl with kids who doesn't even brush her teeth. This obsession is making me not want to hang out with her and we've only been friends for a month.

HELP!

Answer 1

GURL i be having tha same problem! i jus say hey i wont allow you to date my brotha cuz hes offlimits! seriously! all my friends thiink he so sexxi and he 7yrs older than us..i jus be like u needta stop he too old for u anyways

Answer 2

i had a situation kinda like this just start saying like all his bad habits or tell her that he has a girlfriend or something of that nature but dont make it to obvious that ur trying to get her off of him

Answer 3

Just tell her that you don't know the answers to those questions (even if you do) and that you aren't comfortable discussing your brother as an object of her desire.  If you think she is only around you to get to him tell her that you would prefer a friend who was really a friend and not one using you to get access to your brother.

Answer 4

just let her know that if she chooses to talk to him and he turns her down then its not your fault.....

you are not responsible for any problems the relationship has....

Answer 5

Just keep telling her you don't know.  If you have only been with her a month, you DO have the option to stop hanging out with her.  Sounds like she does nothing but breed mouths to feed and forgets to brush her own.