Over the years, occasionally I would have a dream about a boy who I've never met! I don't always see his face quite clearly in the dream, but I see that he is tall, a little thin, has dark brown hair, and a pronounced nose. His voice is also enchanting, haha. In my dreams he would always be teasing me or tussling my hair or holding my hand and taking me somewhere. It's always implied that he's very in love with me- even moreso than I am with him.
Anyway, more recently, I had a very detailed dream in which he and I were having an affair (behind my boyfriend's back), but I felt no regret because I no longer felt much affection for my boyfriend. In this dream he took me to his apartment and we got intimate (it was implied that this was not the first time). Then, when school started again my boyfriend broke up with me gently because "we were drifting apart". I took the breakup well. Then, I take the role of the nameless boy, where a friend tells me that the girl (me in real life) and her boyfriend had broken up. I am overjoyed, and I call the girl to tell her not to answer her phone that evening no matter what (because i was afraid of her boyfriend calling to make up), and that I had a suprise for her tomorrow. Then in the dream I switch back to being the girl, and during a time where alot of my friends (but none of the boyfriends friends) are hanging out, he gives me roses, gets down on his knees and smiling asks me to be his girlfriend. I smile, start to blush, not knowing what to do. I tell him "but its so soon! I just seperated from him yesterday!" but he makes a pouty face and I can't help but take him. We hug and he starts kissing me on the cheeck over and over, in between telling me how happy he is and that he promises he'll be the most amazing boyfriend. I tell him not to be too show-y that we're going out, because I don't want to hurt my ex boyfriend. I tell him to wait one week until he can act like my boyfriend in public (which is kind of useless seeing as he asked me out in front of a big group of friends, but oh well).
Then I flash to the next day, where everyone is talking about it. They're all suprised. A lot of people talk badly about me because I got over my ex so soon, but I'm still happy. Everyday of the week, he gave me a different and expensive gift with a little note. And everyday, my ex boyfriend (who is always sitting with a few of his friends) sees me walking by with the gift in my hand. I kind of feel smug at this point- and really really happy! This boyfriend is all I ever asked for, so polite, charming, and in love with me.
I flash to about a month later. The strange part about this part of the dream is that now that I have this amazing guy as an actual boyfriend, without the thrill of being with him on the sly, I kind of want my old boyfriend back (I knew that my old boyfriend was very in love with me and handsome and sweet also, and I let the relationship stale on purpose so I could finally be with the other guy). I was doubting myself. But I knew that if I go back to my old boyfriend, I'll eventually want the perfect guy back (and the gifts he keeps showering on me). In the dream I'm stuck in the dilemna of wanting both!
Ah, again, thats such a strange dream! In real life, I am still with my boyfriend, and there is no gentlemen bringing me roses. But also like in my dream, my boyfriend is handsome and a total sweatheart, and loves me more than I love him. There's also no one else. Haha I don't know why I posted this, I'm sure the dream doesn't mean too much, besides maybe exposing that I'm not completely fulfilled with my current guy, which I guess I already knew. I guess I just wanted to share this strange dream. Does anyone have a "nameless" boy that enters their dreams on occassion? What are your thoughts on this dream?
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