Should adoptees tell their children about their adoption?
It is something that for some reason I haven't considered until recently, but I am now worried that I should have done and may have left it too late. I would be interested to know what other adoptees who are now parents have done; if they have told their children, and if so how and when. I have always known of my adoption and can't even remember being told, which is obviously the best way, but have left this too late now for my own children and wonder what is the best thing to do. I do not want my children to feel that their grandparents are not really their grandparents etc, as they have already had a lot of upheaval in their lives and need stability. My birthmother is not on the scene but hopefully will be some time in the future, which may complicate things.
I would appreciate some helpful responses and information about how other adoptees have dealt with this issue. Thank you.
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