What about dating a man a little bit older than myself?

Question

41 and divorced..thinking about dating a man between the ages of 45 through 55..haven't found one yet...just think men in that age bracket are ready for a relationship. did all the wild stuff & out of their system?? if you have any knowledge on this please respond!

Answer 1

us younger guys arent going to marry females older than us. She is better off dating someone older than her if she wants a real serious long term relationship.

Can we stay in the real life zone every once in a while?

Us younger guys arent that stupid. wE know you 40 year old women are going to call us pervs when we are 40 chasing someone "too young for us".

Do you think we dont know that?

Anyways, thats a whole other issue. I say go for it. You've been legal for how long now?

Answer 2

Honey, you can date anyone you want. That's what's great about your 40's, you can go for the older men OR the younger men.

Put age out of your mind and focus only on those who, like you mentioned, want a commitment. But don't let any of them waste your time if they don't give you what you want, you're at the point in your life where you really don't have to put up with silly games anymore. Lay your cards out on the table up front and give them "Hobson's choice", all or nothing.

It's like that old song asks, "Why not take all of me?"