What about the decision to have a baby?

Question

I LOVE babies, but I know how hard it is to be full time responsible for a innocent helpless soul especially when you wanna have time to have fun on your own, and it cannot be a part time thing.... How to decide? how not to be disappoint them later on? What to take into consideration? It need maturity, but also does it need patience and commitment... Sometimes, we JUST want a Break!

How to make the best decision?

Answer 1

Hmm.. I am sure you will know when you are ready!

Answer 2

Follow your heart.Do you really REALLY want a baby?If so,why?If you do want a baby,then everything else will come naturally.As long as you have the determination to be a good mum,which I feel that you have.And being parents is just part of you.You can still be a wife,a friend,a daughter and anything you want to be.Just know that if there's a will,there'll always be a way.

Answer 3

See God is fair, before you have a baby you get a lot of practice:

You get married and suddenly become responsible for a helpless soul.

Answer 4

Me , is there something you havn't told us...? You'll know when the time is right ! Ignore Webby ....she's had a very bad day & is suffering!

Unfortunately for us , not in silence !

Answer 5

Webster is right :p

i had many offers from European girls to make babies with me but i refused .. it isn't something to toy with ....

I'll know when I'm ready ... or maybe not ... accidents do happen you know =D

Answer 6

What happened with me is that I love kids soooo much, I always used to baby sit other people's kids and wanted to have my own kids as soon as possible, so there wasn't much thinking about it, I just went for it. I don't regret it even if it meant dropping my carrier and choosing to be a stay at home mother...eventhough it's very very hard raising your own kids (it's not 10% of what you think it is) you get your reward when they do something to make you proud or when you see the love they have for you in their eyes.