What actions can I take if my son's elementary school counselor flipped the middle finger at me?

Question

I was driving behind his car when he gave me the middle finger right before turning into the school's parking lot.

Answer 1

Was your child in the car with you?

If so, I would bring it up to the counselor and say you understand how some drivers might get you angry when your in a hurry or something, but he/she should be aware that students can see their actions.   Fellow mom

Answer 2

maybe he was waving at you. Why would he flip you off for no reason? If there is a reason you probably know what it is and if you don't then ask him.

Answer 3

No way!  I would write a strongly worded letter to the school principal and also to the superintendent to let them know that they have this kind of person representing there school.  This is suppose to be a person our children can look up to...I would want it fixed as well.

Answer 4

He should be report,because that was not professional at all what kind of example do he think he is setting for the young children's.

Answer 5

If you're confused about the reason why he flipped you off then I would ask him why he did it. If you know why he did it then I would let it go.

Answer 6

it wasnt in school so there isnt a whole lot u can do

Answer 7

You can talk to the school's administration but it will be your word against his, so I doubt anything will come of it. But, there will be a record of your complaint and if it happens again to anyone else it will be documented

Answer 8

tell the school con. or whatever i doesnt matter

Answer 9

Why do you need to take any actions? Most people do not flick people off without SOME reason. How were you driving? If you absolutely need to take "actions," why don't you just speak to the counselor?

Answer 10

You can win by not letting it bother you.