My daughter is usually a pretty confident, competent child who gets along with everybody, boys and girls equally. She is sporty, but still feminine. She was recently moved to another classroom, and has since found that the girls in this class are extremely "catty". They tell her who she can talk to, who she can play with, and call her names or exclude her if she does not follow their rules or plays footy with the boys. She is miserable, and it is not her!
What advice would you give her?
The best I have come up with is "stay true to yourself and don't let others tell you what to do. You do what you know is right and don't buy into the catty stuff". Obviously this in not helping! She obviously needs friends. (she has plenty of "good" friends in her rep gymnastics team, soccer team, and tae kwon do), but how much of herself is she expected to give to these girls?
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