What advice do you have for newlywed couples who have not had s*x?

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What advice do you have for newlywed couples who have not had s*x?

Answer 1

I have one word for you:  Lubrication.  Yeah, it sort of spoils the moment to take the time to put it on, and it can be a little messy, but it's so worth the effort.  I wish someone had told ME that before I got married (I was a virgin bride).

I also agree with the other three answerers.  Don't rush.  Both of you will probably be feeling a little nervous, so it's okay if you don't do it that first night.  There are actually a lot of couples that don't.

Thanks for having some morals this day in age.  I was starting to think I was the only person in the world who hadn't done it with someone before I got married. :)

Answer 2

First of all - that's awsome! Good for you!  The only advice I would have is to just give eachother all of your love and have fun!

Congratulations by the way and thank you thank you thank you for having morals and values - so few people have morals anymore these days!  :)

Answer 3

I agree with the other two respondants. Good for you. Take your time. The comment I have to add is that you may want to wait until day 2. On the wedding night, you will be very tired and possibly stressed from all the excitement. If you drink too much, that will affect the whole experience negatively. I would definitely recommend waiting till you reach your honeymoon destination and get relaxed. First night, hold each other, maybel some foreplay and SLEEP!! You will definetely need it!

Answer 4

Take it slow the first time. Spend lots of time on foreplay because the 'main event' may not last as long as either of you would like it to the first time.