What age would you suggest losing your virginity..? cause i have been thinking about it.. when did you? ?

Question

was it a good decision?

cause yes there is a person that i trust that much

and i dont want those "wait until your married" answers

just wondering when most people do

and if you wish you had waited

when would you suggest?

and why? i just wanna know when you think would be a good age

cause i dont want to be one of those little annoying S****y girls that lose there virginity when they are 12.. but then what age is good?

by the way... if it chnages anything.. im a girl

thanks

=)

Answer 1

any time you feel comfortable, but not before you are 15+

Answer 2

you see one thing that matters and i feel i must share with you is. you should be proud of being a virgin. i do not think there is certain age to loose  virginity a person knows when there are ready. but my advise to you is to wait a bit, finish school go to college and then you can think about having s*x.

i'm sure you got goals you want to achieve one day, s*x can wait. prosper your life first and than the rest can follow.

and also remember there are lot of people suffering due to sexually transmitted deseases. some of them even die of HIV and AIDS.

so be careful which decision you make

hope you make the right one

gud luck.

Answer 3

you should really make sure this person is worthy of you before u give them your virginity. You can only loose it once.

I was 19 when i lost my virginity. and honestly the guy was definately not worth it no matter how much i thought he was.

You should fully comprehend the possiblitities of the aftermath of s*x, such as pregnancy and STDs

How old are you? There is no "good age" to loose youre virginity and dont loose it because you think you should.  It shouldnt be a spur of the moment or because your boyfriend says you should or if you are being pressured.

If you are under the age of consent i dont think it would be a good idea.

If you decide to go foward with such a huge desicion make sure you are  100% ready within  your self.

Answer 4

i lost it when i was 4-5 sexually abused so i was not the decision maker

and then at the age of 20 and this was also not a good decision.

Answer 5

I think the youngest anyone should be when having s*x is 17, though most people in my opinion, aren't ready until years later.  I was 17, just a couple months before my 18th birthday when I lost my virginity.  I have never had any regrets.  But most people I know have had regrets about their own circumstances.

I will not tell you to wait until marriage.  I will not tell you to not have s*x at a young age anyway.  I can only advise you to give this a great deal of consideration because once you do it, you can't take it back.  I've attached a s*x readiness checklist for you to take a look at.  This lists many different things you may not have thought to consider.  I hope it helps you to make your decision.  There is a great deal more information on the Scarleteen website that I hope you find useful as well.

Answer 6

When you are mature enough to handle it on your own without asking questions about when you should do it.  You obviously don't know, so you aren't ready.  When you are emotionally and financially mature enough to deal with the consequences of your actions instead of laying it on your parents if something goes wrong.  Do you think only stupid people get pregnant or diseases?  Being smart has nothing to do with science because no method of birth control is 100% and condoms don't prevent 100% of diseases.  It's your decision ultimately.  You can always wait, but you can't undo it once you did it.  One thing you know, you'll do it eventually.  If you have a problem with guilt, don't do it.

Answer 7

14 lol

Answer 8

haha. little annoying S****y girls. i lost my virginity when i was 12. and got pregnant. biggest mistake of my life. but that doesnt mean im S****y.  

thanks.

i would suggest wait until you're done with high school at least. so you can focus on what really matters during those years.