What am I to do with my wife?

Question

-She's puttinng on weight

-Her v****a increasingly smells awful

-She spends too much

-She wears dumb looking sunglasses to hide her face

-She pretends she is of a higher social class

-She cooks only occasionally

-She is awful to look at naked, compared to what once was

-She has a short attention span

-She has Stretch Marks on her groin and stomach (Disgusting!!!)

-She tans too much and her skins is showing signs of this

-She talks to our kids like they are inferior

-She didn't graduate college and is uneducated

-She is pretentious towards others even without a right to be

-She wants a Denali now instead of what she already has

-Her face is fading

-She feels entitled to just so many things....maybe because she didn't come from money and lived so many years with envy toward others

What do I do?

Answer 1

u shud love wat u married or y marry dem??

if she is so awful y r u married 2 her??

Answer 2

You have a very long list.  It appears that you are comparing her to what she was to what you feel she is now.  You might also be bored. Please take into consideration that she probably has a long list of her own entitled...What Am I Going To Do With My Husband?

You don't say how long you have been together, but it is time to seriously talk.  If not, your lists will continue to grow with "petty" dislikes. Have a discussion without becoming defensive and argumentative with one another and keep in mind that things will not change over night.

Try making a list of all the things you do like about her.  You might be surprised. I'm sure there are some qualities you still admire about her, or should I say... admire about each other?

Take Care.

Answer 3

Your wife has bipolar disorder. Oh man. I'm so very sorry. Get her psychological treatment, start working out with her, tell her how you feel about the cooking and other wife duties, and pray. She sounds sooooo selfish.

Answer 4

You married her, so you're the loser.

Answer 5

This sounds like you arent in love with your wife.

The best advise I can give you is... TALKING always. Tell her the truth.

Before you get so sick of her that you make the mistake of having an affair and make things your you even worst. About your kids, how old are they. If they are in a talking age and they understand your problem, ask them how they feel about the way she treats them. It could affect them later if you dont! Tell your wife all the things that you just told us on yahoo. I wish you lots of luck. Im truly sorry, but the only way to do it is together not alone and if she wont listen to what you have to say them she not worth being with you and those children. Best of!

Answer 6

sounds to me like she has some MAJOR self esteem issues and she is trying to compensate for that. it isnt you! and material things are not going to make things better for her. she needs professional mental help to make her see that she has a problem and some counseling for HER will hopefull help her get back to normal....good luck.

Answer 7

Maybe you are making her that way. You seem to be very picky. Why did you marry her in the first place. She deserves better. Get a divorce.  

Answer 8

Encourage her, don't put her down.

Build her up, not down.

Give her hope, not defeat.  

She can only mirror what you have made her out to be.

Answer 9

divorce her then if you cant look past her flaws then leave her