What am i, girls or boys?

Question

im 17 and i know i should have made up my mind by now but it seems that the older i get...the more lost i get. I dont know if im g*y or straight. i am not attracted to women just by looking at them but when i get to know certain females, i fid myself liking them and thinking about them a great deal of time.

Thee problem is that i am attracted to boys based on their looks and they turn me on, but after getting to know them i find myself to be turned off. i dont even like kissing at all. the last time i enjoyed a kiss was with my best friend (girl) when i was 9 yrs old. idk what this means.

i really appreciate all anwers and thanks for reading

Answer 1

Your prolly a L*****n... You prolly will do well dating a "butch" girl!!! Good Luck

Answer 2

There's no particular age to "make up your mind" by, and in fact, it's not even a matter of making up your mind! Everybody is different, and everybody takes a different amount of time to discover their sexuality. I know it would be nice if someone else could tell you what your sexuality is, but we can't, it's all you! It will help you to visit some online resource sites for teens coming to terms with their sexuality- there's heaps out there. I also definitely recommend you join a youth group for GLBTI teens in your area- there you can discuss your thoughts and feelings with other people who know what you're going through, ranging from slightly curious to out and experienced.

Good luck and remember not to rush yourself, you'll figure it out eventually!