What am i getting myself into?

Question

I met this guy through a friend of a friend about 3 or 4 months ago and we hit it off good and we started texting a lot but thats it and we hung out a few times. We just hung today but he's really flirty with everyone so i dont know if he's just a player or what. Then i asked him what he wanted with us and he said that he wants a relationship but not now cuz we kinda live far away and he gets a car in 3 months but we both dont wanna wait that long so what do i do? Keep it going or just drop it? Is he playing me or does he really wanna relationship with me?

Answer 1

Sounds like you should just not worry about it one way or the other, like keep texting him and flirting or whatever and in 3 months if everything works out then that's great, but anything can happen in 3 months that could change everything.  I mean, stuff can happen in 3 weeks that could change everything, so I wouldn't put all your eggs in one basket.  

Answer 2

I woulnd't hold your breath waiting for him... But if it happens eventually then I'd give it a chance!

Answer 3

guys are hard to read sometimes.

ask him what he wants in his future

does he want to get married?

does he want to stay single?

ask him. be open.

fair warning rite here i think hes playing with you

good luck

w. luv

sarah

Answer 4

he may really like you.

i love the way you worded the question because i ask myself that every day with the situation i'm in. everyday it's "Oh my god...what am i doing?!"

i say you see what happens. just casually text and talk on the phone. it's hard to like a flirty guy because you have no idea if he likes or just wants to hook up with you, but either way, if you enjoy his personality and like talking to him, go for it. flirty guys can always turn into good guys and even good boyfriends when put with the proper girl, who may be you!

so don't drop something that isn't set in stone.  

Answer 5

i don't think it should matter you live a little far away. 3 moths will go by really fast so if he wants to be with you he will make it happen.You an keep texting and emailing each other or talk on the phone. If he is not so sure about it I don't think you should waste your energy on him.

Answer 6

he isnt playing you hes serious but u shouldnt have to wait so long for him tell him you guys will pick it up later

Answer 7

i think if u really lik him you can wait but if you dont lik him enough drop him, but make sure you always concer thing that will get you somewhere in life not junk!

Answer 8

You'll probably just have to wait and see what happens.

He sounds a little like a player.

Answer 9

cool