What am i gonna do??????? i need some opinions

Question

well my boyfriend is going to barbados for a month...and at first i was like ok...but now the time is getting closer...he is leaving tomorrow and i'm so sad i keep crying no matter how i try to hold it back...he has been so busy with work and getting ready to leave we haven't had the chance to speak ans the thought of him leaving for so long is really driving me crazy...i need to know of stuff i could do to get my mind off him for one whole month....its tearing me up real bad....

Answer 1

Hey! What you're going through is quite natural.

It reveals to you now how much attatched you are to him.

It seems to me that you are sad and feeling INSECURE as well. Anything can happen in a month.

So many of "WHAT IF'S??" must be popping in your head.

You might as well be afraid of losing importance in his life.

It is really tough to deal with.

You need to let this relation loosen up a bit.

The more you take it to your heart more difficult it will be for you.

If he is committed to you he will come back as yours surely.

Right now you cannot not divert your mind. Try spending more time with him. Be there! help him out in every possible way. Let him know your devotion to him. Do all that you can. I'm sure you will find peace in your heart.

You do your job, rest is up to him.

You will not regret this.Believe me!