What am i gonna do ?

Question

okay i have 2 girls 3 & 2 and im 6 months prengnat with a lil boy and my 2 year old is stuck on me like glue i dont know how its gonna be when i come home with the baby i feel like shes gonna be mad at me and hurt the baby has anyone else been through this and how did it work out ???? thanks :)

Answer 1

What you wanna do is teach her to love the new baby by suggesting right away 1st day home to hug the baby, gentle touch the baby and help take the baby a bath, help mommy feed the baby you can pick out the clothes today and you can help do this and that, you want to sort of force the love w/ the children so they are taught to love one another. Raising children can be tough but they can only learn what you've taught them!! Good luck, itll be okay refrain from that thought of her treating the baby unfair, place that same energy into guiding them in the right path. Congrats on the new baby!!

Answer 2

Be very carefully, my cousin went through the same situation, only that her boy was 6 and her girl was 3 she was told that she was having a boy. For some reason the 6yrs old started sucking his finger and using the potty on him, the little one was always kissing the belly but when she came back with the baby who was a girl instead of a boy the big one became more responsible and the little one was beating up the baby every time nobody was around. She was 3yr so she was able to talk but she would denied until one day that her hands print were still on the baby's face my cousin told her "I saw you better tell me the true, why did you hit her" and the 3yrs old replied "because I want to, take her back to belly"  we went over nice touch and bad touch with both of them. we had to give them a lot of attention

Answer 3

time to put your 3 & 2 year olds into full time child care..

jealousy is a huge problem with middle kids...