What am i suppose too do im in alove triangle?

Question

Two of this guys in my life I love them both one I been with for 4 yrs but the thing is we been had drama before we kinda got distant i this other guy he pretty much makes me smile alot of the times and we share alot in common and i dont know what to do im stuck and Im going crazy thinking who i can be with but Im confused i feel like i let one go im going too regret it I dont want no one too get hurt

but Idont know hwat too do

Answer 1

im having a simillar problem u are.

this is really dificult because there are many things to do

u could eaither date netiher and try to move on

or u can really think about it long and hard, listen to your heart and make a decision be4 its to late

Answer 2

IF ONE GUY HAS GIVEN YOU DRAMA AND HEARTACHE THEN LET HIM GO. tHE OTHER GUY IS WORTH IT IF HE MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. iF YOU KEEP LETTING THE 1ST GUY HURT YOU SOON YOU WILL THINK YOUR SUPPOSED TO FEEL THAT WAY, BUT  YOUR NOT. iVE BEEN THRU IT. ITS HARD TO LET GO AND SURE YOULL MISS HIM. BUT THE NICE GUY WILL KEEP YOU OCCUPIED AND SOON YOULL FORGET ABOUT THE JERKY ONE. REMEBER AS A WISE GIRL ONCE TOLD ME. A MAN ONLY DOES TO YOU WHAT YOU LET HIM. SO DONT LET HIM HURT YOU, MOVE ON  

Answer 3

You shouldn't be dating anyone until you do some self improving of yourself.Try going back to school and educating yourself and learning to love yourself first...And then you will be able to love someone else...No offense, I don't mean to be rude but it sounds like you have no idea what love truly is...

Answer 4

3 sums always work. (: haha

Answer 5

Well, one thing you should probably do is work out the drama with your 4 year guy before you go looking for another guy. The drama makes it very easy to think - Oh, this other guy is much easier to get along with. But in reality, 4 years down the road with that other guy and you could be in the same boat.

However, if you and the 4 year guy have major issues, you should either resolve them or decide that you can't and move on. But like I said, I wouldn't base it on another man. I suggest talking to your 4 year man about it, that you are confused and want to work out your problems and are thinking of going to another guy instead. If you go to the other guy, make sure you tell the 4 year guy it is over - cheating is not nice! You wouldn't want someone to do it to you, so make sure you make it very clear to both of them of whatever you decide before you do hurt someone more by breaking their trust.

Good luck! Communication is key.

Answer 6

love is not drama and heartache...really.

Go with the guy who makes you feel happy and makes you smile....life is too short to have so much drama in your love life.

I have been happily married to my very best friend for 6 yrs...I think I can speak from experience

Answer 7

Let him go move on ...

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Answer 8

Well niether of the guys are rite for u when u really love someone ur not confused its ur instinct and it will come naturally