What are men looking for? ?

Question

How deep are men looking when looking for a mate? I mean dont they want substance as well as smarts and beauty....I have not been having any luck....oh yeah, im the most popular in the freaking UNIVERSE with a******s and users...and thoughtless and selfish beings.....

Answer 1

It depends on how old they are.. well that's not completely true. It really depends on how mature they are. And trust me, every girl in the world has the same problem with jerks. I've dated wayyy too many of them already, haha. You have to find a guy who treats you right and who thinks you're the only woman in the world. But you can't have mine :)

Answer 2

depends on the age range...

HS - Most look for physical attraction for s*x

College - Open up more and become deeper and look at personality

After - A real emotional connection in a relationship, physical for s*x

Answer 3

Most, not all men are shallow!!!! Whatever you do, DO NOT look for a man who goes to bars or parties a lot, most likely they are on the prowl for something short and sweet!

Answer 4

I had to chuckle at that, you sound like my daughter! She also seems to be able to pick the ones that will be in jail in a matter of weeks for one thing or another.

  Thankfully, it seems she has finally found a "good" one!

    

Answer 5

Whats wrong with going to bars and looking for something short and sweet? I was married for 13 years and divorced for 9 years and I had a ball scoring with women in bars. One night stands were just fine and if it lasted a month or two that was alright but just don't pack your bags and come to stay. If I had to guess I probably had somewhere in the range of 75 to 100 different women in those 9 years, never really kept count but it was a real blast while it lasted. Then I met my current wife. End of story.

Answer 6

If you are serious in your question and you really want an answer, then I would tell you that a man like me 4 example is seeking those substances below in a woman mate (wife in future) :

1- Loyalty

2- Beauty

3- Kindness

4- Giving

5- Forgiving

6- Calm

And they are arranged according to their importance, but that doesn't mean that I'm putting them as conditions and I must find them all in one woman, but it's just a wish or simple requests for this woman who ever she was to be loyal to me, to be kind to give me her self (heart), to forgive me if I did any mistake or mistreated her not on intention, and to be calm, not just keep shouting at me everyday complaining about bad life or whatever,......

If you find a true love, a man who really loves you, he is going to give you his soul, heart, everything he have, but he is going to be waiting for  you to pay back and pay him true love.

So attracting men sexually doesn't work, simply because you'll be attracting his desire and not his heart... I really hope all woman could understand that.

So you'll attract his heart only when you are very kind and cheerful to him and not to be so sticky, make HIM mad about you, drag him to you.

But sadly I must warn you about jerks, they DO exist in this world !!